I've never traded /ES options but I've traded quite a bit SPY and SPX (didn't matter if it was via TOS or via IB)
Getting into a calendar in the SPX is easy, they usually filled right at the mid price.
Getting out is a different story (at least my experience).
I switched back to SPY (even though the commission is significantly higher) because I've had a hard time closing out trades that were not exactly within a percent of the short strike or because the short was a week (4-7 days) within expiration and I've had a hard time closing it.
Try to put on a one lot iron condor in the SPX and compare it with the SPY and you'll see the difference that you'll have to give up.
Now that's just the fill, and I'm usually holding for a couple of weeks. I've never day traded them but I would probably got for the SPY if I wanted to day trade, just because you can always get out easily.
my 2 cents
Getting into a calendar in the SPX is easy, they usually filled right at the mid price.
Getting out is a different story (at least my experience).
I switched back to SPY (even though the commission is significantly higher) because I've had a hard time closing out trades that were not exactly within a percent of the short strike or because the short was a week (4-7 days) within expiration and I've had a hard time closing it.
Try to put on a one lot iron condor in the SPX and compare it with the SPY and you'll see the difference that you'll have to give up.
Now that's just the fill, and I'm usually holding for a couple of weeks. I've never day traded them but I would probably got for the SPY if I wanted to day trade, just because you can always get out easily.
my 2 cents