I think it is more a psychology issue. I loved the feeling that I could make money in any case, unless a serious drop occurred. Also, up until now, I was bullish.For the same reasons, it is really impossible for me to buy a call, knowing that I will pay a premium and the option decays every millisecond. That would make me sick. Deep inside, I am aware that those are fallacies...
You can buy LEAPS CALL and sell weekly calls to recover the cost of long call
As you know theta decay on yearly call will be much much smaller than theta decay on weeklies, so you can go far out and still get costs back. Just divide the cost of long call by 52 and sell weekly each week to recover the premium outlay.. Or maybe stop doing it for a week or two after big drops to allow SP500 to recover and then continue.. Beware this can clip some upside, if you sell like 3% out and SP500 rises more than 3% that week, but go check how many 3+ % weeks we had? not many. And also you will outperform during sell-off weeks so this partly offsets.. Just a thought.. 