Very good info trader42. Yes, i've done a bunch of cancel replace orders on smart and have seen it only getting charged an extra 0.01; so thats a non issue.
I am a bit not clear about the add/remove liquidity fee though. For CBOE for example for Penny Pilot ->ETFs (SPY in particular), it shows a 0.001 for removing liquidity and 0.00 for adding for a public customer. So i suppose there is no change in reality between those two. I see that for the professional column its .45 for removing liquidity ; and .30 for adding. So i am assuming .30 is a rebate. But then for PHLX there is a .43 charge for removing liquidity. So i guess its better to route to CBOE if i am doing it manually. Am i reading it right? I suppose i can just trade a couple of times and see what it turns out to be (but i have seen that the commisions are very variable and i might have to trade more than a couple of times to see what the averages turn out to be).
And in summary looks like even if i route manually, cancel/replace probably wont hurt me much from commisions perspective. So maybe its all a non-issue.