Quote from Max E. Pad:
I swear to god, RCG guy spins so much bullshit i dont even think he knows what comes out of his mouth any more...... I actually think he may have "borderline personality disorder"......
https://www.achievesolutions.net/achievesolutions/en/Content.do?contentId=9704
"Summary
Rooted in poor self-esteem
Lying for many reasons, or no reason at all
Not officially a mental disorder
Suggests deeper psychological problems
Almost everyone has encountered a pathological liarâthe type of person who in one conversation claims to have dined with the Queen of England, danced back-up for Madonna, and dived with great white sharks. The problem for pathological liars is that their attempts to impress often backfire.
Instead of getting the love and attention they seek,
they usually earn scorn and ridicule. A habit of lying can quickly ruin a personâs reputation and interfere with his ability to establish meaningful relationships.
We all lie, in many different ways, many times a dayâmainly to avoid hurting ourselves or others. Experts believe that children figure out by the age of 4 that they can mislead others with lies. But what makes a person leap from social- or self-defense lying to habitual, compulsive lying?
Why they lie
Some psychologists theorize that a chronic liar is trying to deceive herself as much as she is trying to deceive others. Because of poor self-esteem,
she wants to believe her lies, and often does believe them, at least while sheâs telling them.
Some of the hallmarks of pathological liars include telling outrageously dramatic stories, telling fibs that are easily disputed,
changing stories when challenged and, most importantly, lying even when thereâs no apparent benefit in telling the lie. Compulsive liars lie for many reasons, including no reason at all, but most often they lie to:
feel admired
gain popularity
control and manipulate
compensate for feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem
cover up failures
Although not officially designated as a mental disorder,
pathological lying is often seen as the tip of the iceberg for deeper psychological problems including
narcissistic personality disorder, antisocial personality disorder and obsessive-compulsive disorder. Narcissists, for example, constantly fear being revealed as frauds and, thus,
weave ever-increasing lies to bolster their fragile self-esteem. People with antisocial personality disorder do not experience guilt and, therefore, lying becomes an easy option.
One psychologist came up with the term âdouble consciousnessâ to describe the ability of a habitual liar to carry 2 stories in his head at any time: the real story and the desired one. Some simply get addicted to the instant gratification associated with telling the desired, ego-boosting lie.
Other research indicates that many pathological liars have a neurological imbalance: Their verbal skills are high, but thereâs a slight impairment in the frontal lobes, the part of the brain that censors speech. It has also been reported that children with such brain disorders as autism have a hard time lying successfully, further making a case for a physical connection.
Often, pathological lying masks problems related to childhood, including trauma, neglect, lack of attention, lack of guidance or failure by parents to set realistic limits. Some researchers suggest that
pathological liars often have parents who are pathological liars and that lying was part of the family dynamics...."