I'd like to start with the first part, the mental.
Fair enough.., lets get to the nut cuttin
Few ground rules:
I don't mince words - I expect the same from you
Honesty - you'll get it from me - I expect it from you
You get pissed - either at me or in general - say so
You have questions - ask.., either here or in PM
You feel I've posted BS - say so
You have something on your mind - speak it.., either here or in PM
Know..., every emotion / doubt / question / concern / bitch/ unworthiness / flat stupid / frustrated / or whatever..., you've had..., or will have - I've had it too
I survived - so to will you
This will be work..., this will change you - since you asked.., I'll assume you're up for it
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Step 1 - clarify and solidify
Need you to create your Approach / Methodology
Some call this a trading plan - I don't..., I will ask you to create a trading plan for each trade - but that is a ways down the road - and we'll discuss when appropriate
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Your Approach / Methodology
Addresses the; What / Why / How / When - of your specific trading (the who is obviously you)
Examples:
What:
What type of trader
What tools you will use
What TF's you will use / which is your trading TF..., your higher TF..., your lower TF
What are your signals
- Which btw - you only get two setups (signals) at this stage - one for longs..., one for shorts - matters not which signals you pick either
What context you will use
What it is you're trading
Add to as appropriate
When:
Times of day/ week / month / whenever - your will trade
Again - add to as appropriate
How;
How you will be going about your actual trading
How will you create context
How will you identify price's bias
Again - add to as appropriate
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This is your approach / methodology - create / add / modify accordingly
This meant to clarify and solidify - in you - what it is you the trader does
Keep the mkt out of it - this is only about you
Anything you're unclear/ unsure about - we can discuss (here or in PM)
Goal is to get this crap straight in your head - so you can execute it to the letter - no matter if all hell breaking loose in the mkt
Get your approach / methodology created - then we'll move on down the road
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In the meantime I have a few questions I would like you to answer please (here or in PM)
Take your time..., and think through these please
How do you feel about uncertainty
How do you feel about a losing trade/ series of losing trades
(For instance: do they piss you off / make you feel less than / make you feel you were wrong / how do you view them)
Do you believe losing trades..., are as much a part of proper trading - as are winning trades
Objective..., unbiased..., mentally centered..., dispassionate - to what extent of each are you.., when trading
You an observer and exploiter..., or a participant
You been trading for over 3 yrs - what stuff (crap) has built up over that time - that needs resolved (put to rest)
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I've asked some pretty poignant questions - feel like not sharing with the world..., PM your responses
Me - I'm a simple minded..., dumbass redneck - I could give a shit what the world thinks
And at the end of this journey of your's Sir - so too will you not give a shit - if trading correctly what you truly desire
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After your approach / methodology complete - next step will be to instill discipline..., patience..., routine - but not until the approach / methodology complete
Can't do it..., if we're even a little unclear on what exactly it..., is
RN