People have blown up on a variety of far-end exotic risks. Heck, I know a guy who blew up being LONG a bunch of SPX tail risk in the fall of 2011 (now, THAT was an achievement if you ask me).
Sle, with all due respect the trader was not blown up on long tail puts...he changed the trade with delta hedging , etc..that's what blew him up. I have done in the past with vx spreads...do a long vol fly, then Frankenstein it by reducing the long vol wing planning on putting them back on in better terms, never happens...there is a lot that is non intuitive in vol space. For me it's continously raising disipline and rules.