I just got this and as it's tangentially connected to white saviours and the stupid, I'll post it.
NYT: Biden Should Not Run Again — and He Should Say He Won’t
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Truth is funnier than fiction sometimes.
https://www.foxnews.com/politics/dad-biden-lets-go-brandon-christmas-eve-santa-norad-call
Dad tells Biden, 'Let's go Brandon' during Christmas Eve call — and Biden responds
'Let's go Brandon, I agree,' Biden responded
Things went off script when President Bidenand first lady Jill Biden spoke with children and NORAD officials who are tracking Santa Claus on Christmas Eve.
A dad who identified as Jared from Oregon closed his family's call with the Bidens by saying, "Let's go Brandon," a phrase that disparages the president.
The phrase became an internet sensation when fans at a NASCAR race chanted "F--- Joe Biden." A reporter who was interviewing driver Brandon Brown live on air seemed to think that the crowd was chanting "let's go Brandon."
It's now used to mock both Biden and the media for not understanding those who oppose the president, and as a euphemism for that more vulgar chant.
Let's go Brandon, I agree," Biden responded.
The president followed up by asking where Jared's home was, but no one responded.
"I think we lost him," Biden said.
https://www.foxnews.com/politics/dad-biden-lets-go-brandon-christmas-eve-santa-norad-call
Dad tells Biden, 'Let's go Brandon' during Christmas Eve call — and Biden responds
'Let's go Brandon, I agree,' Biden responded
Things went off script when President Bidenand first lady Jill Biden spoke with children and NORAD officials who are tracking Santa Claus on Christmas Eve.
A dad who identified as Jared from Oregon closed his family's call with the Bidens by saying, "Let's go Brandon," a phrase that disparages the president.
The phrase became an internet sensation when fans at a NASCAR race chanted "F--- Joe Biden." A reporter who was interviewing driver Brandon Brown live on air seemed to think that the crowd was chanting "let's go Brandon."
It's now used to mock both Biden and the media for not understanding those who oppose the president, and as a euphemism for that more vulgar chant.
Let's go Brandon, I agree," Biden responded.
The president followed up by asking where Jared's home was, but no one responded.
"I think we lost him," Biden said.
That Dad was a jerk.
Probably so, but it seems to be socially acceptable in today’s wokeness to publicly insult a sitting president. Tis been going on last few administrations and getting worse as time goes on.
I was surprised they didn’t delay the feed to edit such and were not prepared.
This isn't funny anymore -- the situation is getting scarier and scarier.
https://www.alzsd.org/dos-and-donts-of-compassionate-communication-dementia/
Do’s and Don’ts of communication and dementia
You can’t control memory loss – only your reaction to it.
For people with dementia, their disability is memory loss. Asking them to remember is like asking a blind person to see. (Common questions like “Did you take your pills?” or “What did you do today?” are the equivalent of asking them to remember something.) A loss of this magnitude reduces the capacity to reason. Expecting them to be reasonable or to accept your conclusion is unrealistic. Don’t correct, contradict, blame or insist. Reminders are rarely kind. They tell a person how disabled they are – over and over again.
People living with dementia say and do normal things for someone with memory impairment. If they were deliberately trying to exasperate you, they would have a different diagnosis. Forgive them…always. For example, your wife isn’t purposely hiding your favorite pair of shoes. She thinks she’s protecting them by putting them in a safe place…and then forgets.
Here are some basic Do’s when it comes to communication with someone with dementia:
Here are some Don’ts:
- Give short, one sentence explanations.
- Allow plenty of time for comprehension, and then triple it.
- Repeat instructions or sentences exactly the same way.
- Avoid insistence. Try again later.
- Agree with them or distract them to a different subject or activity.
- Accept the blame when something’s wrong (even if it’s fantasy).
- Leave the room, if necessary, to avoid confrontations.
- Respond to the feelings rather than the words.
- Be patient and cheerful and reassuring. Do go with the flow.
- Practice 100% forgiveness. Memory loss progresses daily.
We’ve put together some specific examples of good and bad communication below, keeping these do’s and don’ts in mind.
- Don’t reason.
- Don’t argue.
- Don’t confront.
- Don’t remind them they forget.
- Don’t question recent memory.
- Don’t take it personally.
- “What doctor’s appointment? There’s nothing wrong with me.”
Don’t: (reason) “You’ve been seeing the doctor every three months for the last two years. It’s written on the calendar and I told you about it yesterday and this morning.”
DO: (short explanation) “It’s just a regular checkup.”
(accept blame) “I’m sorry if I forgot to tell you.”- “I didn’t write this check for $500. Someone at the bank is forging my signature.”
Don’t: (argue) “What? Don’t be silly! The bank wouldn’t be forging your signature.”
DO: (respond to feelings) “That’s a scary thought.”
(reassure) “I’ll make sure they don’t do that.”
(distract) “Would you help me fold the towels?”- “Nobody’s going to make decisions for me. You can go now…and don’t come back!”
Don’t: (confront) “I’m not going anywhere and you can’t remember enough to make your own decisions.”
DO: (accept blame or respond to feelings) “I’m sorry this is a tough time.”
(reassure) “I love you and we’re going to get through this together.”
(distract) “You know what? Don has a new job. He’s really excited about it.”- “Joe hasn’t called for a long time. I hope he’s okay.”
Don’t: (remind) “Joe called yesterday and you talked with him for 15 minutes.”
DO: (reassure) “You really like talking with him don’t you?”
(distract) “Let’s call him when we get back from our walk.”- “Hello, Mary. I see you’ve brought a friend with you.”
Don’t: (question memory) “Hi Mom. You remember Eric, don’t you? What did you do today?”
DO: (short explanation) “Hi Mom. You look wonderful! This is Eric. We work together.”- “Who are you? Where’s my husband?”
Don’t: (take it personally) “What do you mean – who’s your husband?” I am!”
DO: (go with the flow, reassure) “He’ll be here for dinner.”
(distract) “How about some milk and cookies?… Would you like chocolate chip or oatmeal?”- “I’m going to the store for a newspaper.”
Don’t: (repeat differently) “Please put your shoes on.”…You’ll need to put your shoes on.”
DO: (repeat exactly) “Please put your shoes on.”… “Please put your shoes on.”- “I don’t want to eat this! I hate chicken.”
Don’t: (respond negatively) “You just told me you wanted chicken. I’m not making you anything else, so you better eat it!”
Do: (accept blame) “I’m so sorry, I forgot. I was in such a rush that it slipped my mind.
(respond positively) Let me see what else we have available.” Leave the room and try again.
With kids watching he made the correct move, whether it was intentional who cares. He was elected to be conventional, normal, don't hear from him for a few days at a time.