I wouldn't worry too much, this was the best Opening Only Order morning in quite some time. You keep saying "MOO" - using market orders is not something I would do in any case, but especially on the open. The consolidated trades are most likely something you cannot participate in anyway. And, since we have the NMS rules, your NYSE direct orders will be filled at the proper opening price.
When I go back and check many of these consolidated trades, I see that many are "busted" and corrected anyway.
I'm interviewing all the major exchanges and ARCA for an upcoming article in TASC, and will be asking questions about this whole thing.
Sorry if you had a rough morning however...
Don