At the assisted care place my Mom is at, they had a bunch of new people move into vacant condos last month, the first in quite a while. My Mom, who used to be an RN and is the liason between the condo assoc and the caregivers, said that many of them had waited too long, and were not likely to last in the assisted care wing, and end up in the nursing care facility instead, very quickly. She said they were waiting because they either couldn't sell their homes, or because they were delaying, hoping home prices would recover, but ended up being FORCED to give up living on their own. My guess is there are many more like them waiting in the wings, who will eventually be forced to go to assisted or nursing care facilities, taking whatever loss they have to, because they just can't survive on their own anymore.
Yes, demographics is but another negative for the housing market as the population ages, retires, and either dies off or lands in care facilities. Just add them to the 20% vacant, and the 50% of mortgages underwater, combined with the 20% un/under employed.
A friend, who had bought a place in 2006 after the initial subprime/housing troubles started, had got a mortgage mod last year after taking a 25% pay cut over the past couple years to keep his job. He told me yesterday that he owes $165k and that the places are now selling, when they do sell, for $50 to $60k, and that he's just going to stop paying and save up cash for a few months to go rent a place and mail in the keys. What's even worse is that he told his son that when he graduates from high school he will have 30 days to move out, because he says he can't afford the extra mouth to feed. I think its partly because a kid across the hall stays home all day and mooches off his Mom at age 25 and my friend isn't going to let that happen to him, but its a very sad state this nation is in when we start telling our kids they have 30 days to vacate.
PS: My Mom gave up and mailed in the keys to her previous condo recently (6 or 8 months ago) after trying to sell/rent it for the past 5 years. The bank still doesn't even have it listed for sale, I don't think