I'm most of the way through Trading in the Zone right now and I agree with all of Lurefo's comments. I do think, though, that playing your last trade of the day conservatively is part of the process of building trust in oneself and I see it no differently than reducing your trade size after a bad run.
I think you need to get to a point where comments like "Now, I ask all the seasoned professionals here to tell me that they NEVER do anything like that. Please convince me that this kind of madness will truly end some day!" will seem silly to say. Sure, you want to eliminate mistakes likes those, but there's no need to bring any emotion to the table other than determination to take the actions needed to minimize those mistakes. And a big part of that calm determination comes from the knowledge that no one can be mistake free.
I have the benefit of having played poker for years so I've learned to become pretty detached and tilt-proof. Losing your cool or feeling frustration is just wasted energy that keeps you from focusing on the next opportunity. Be unhappy for a moment or two, breath it out and put it behind you. Next chart!
I think you need to get to a point where comments like "Now, I ask all the seasoned professionals here to tell me that they NEVER do anything like that. Please convince me that this kind of madness will truly end some day!" will seem silly to say. Sure, you want to eliminate mistakes likes those, but there's no need to bring any emotion to the table other than determination to take the actions needed to minimize those mistakes. And a big part of that calm determination comes from the knowledge that no one can be mistake free.
I have the benefit of having played poker for years so I've learned to become pretty detached and tilt-proof. Losing your cool or feeling frustration is just wasted energy that keeps you from focusing on the next opportunity. Be unhappy for a moment or two, breath it out and put it behind you. Next chart!
