Nod,
"sort yourself out"
Your problem is mental and not mechanical. Yes i understand failure to pull the trigger on your setups is mechanical but you as well as i know it is mental that does not allow your finger to hit the mouse when it should be hit.
Do "critical thinking" think about what will make a difference.
A wise person recognizes a mistake and corrects it. Those that kid themselves keep making the same mistake over and over.
Be harder on yourself. Forget about others in trading because you are there to make money not to make friends. It is a job not a hobby.
You do not need to win the war of defeating the whole mkt, no one has ever done that and hopefully no one ever will or all you that have not built up a retirement never will do it in the mkts. Like who wants to go work on the outside of our little world? The mkt is partly beatable, partly being the keyword.
But you do need to win the battle of yourself.
Even in the greatest Army ever built the training always has been in sections. A soldier might be an infantryman, an artillary person, a tank person, a scout person, Bighog was a scout,

, etc etc. No individual soldier can win the whole war. No one trader can master the whole mkt. Find your section and master it. pick out your own small battle and master it. Let the others do the rest.
Kick some selective butt. Forget what others tell you how to win such an individual battle, this is not a team sport.
Ok, off to hopefully get into trouble. Thats a downside to getting older, you avoid the battles you no longer can win and just do what you do best and that is to be mellow and reflect on the good times. I do not chase women anymore but have fond memories.

( Truth be known, more chased me that i chased, hahhaha..)
Have fun and know you can defeat a part of the mkt, just lower your sights and pick your targets and take them out one at a time.
PS: I just backed up and read Roberts post to you, ha. Bob and i both have a good idea what is bothering you. I think we both would agree you are trying to chew to much at the same time. we are trying to help you. Nerds posts like trader davids are just what you do not need.............that guy is lost as it is and how can he help you. Watch what posts you read, some are causing you more trouble than they are worth. just trying to give you some tough facts. YOU GO GIRL!!!!