Quote from nutmeg:
As a nurse, you most likely are a caring and compassionate guy.
Secondly, working in a field dominated by women your estrogen level is probably higher than most men.
thirdly, your post sounds like a friggin romance novel.
I'm not saying any of this to disrespect you or your profession or who you work with but perhaps women view you as some foreign gender. Yes you're a man but you probably relate very well with women and patients if you're a good nurse but women that you might find attractive want a "bad boy" and you ain't it.
Well nutmeg, you made some good guesses... but estrogen really hasn't changed me except to think the less of it I'm subject to, the more sane I'll be. There are good reasons why most nurses are women, and most doctors are men. I don't think I fall into the 'too womanly' category, neither am I a "bad boy." I'm very middle of the road, and very logical person.
I can draw, really good with computers, love anatomy and physiology, speak two languages (it counts because I can find a Spanish woman, if this dating goes no where I will eventually move to another country when I have time n money.), athletic, love reading, learning and trading. My point is I'm far from one dimensional.
I'm well off financially more so than most 24 yr olds I am sure. No baggage as in not divorced, no kids, no health conditions, etc. The slap in the face was metaphorical, i meant basically ignored..
Why do you think i said women lie when they say I'm 'handsome?' I'm starting to think it's false. I said not love anyone else because I have never really loved anyone else. Not sure what love is really. Never tell anyone but family 'i love u." I guess I have problem reading women, but I'm around them all the time. Yea I'm working to get out of nursing as it's stressful for low money. I thought I had an edge but I really didn't. This happened to me as a trader. Maybe more money gives you an edge with women, it seems that's all rich talk about.
Quote from nutmeg:
Now that I think about it, why don't you tell us about your male friends. Got male friends? What do you and the guys do? Play cards, go out drinking, what guy things do you do?
Plenty male friends. I don't like hang out with douche bags though. I do normal things with my male and female friends. Clubs, bars, dining out, events by the military, etc.... I go out with men women, don't matter. Last Thursday we went to friends house, he cook dinner and we drink and chill. Just 4 of us and yes there was girl there. I've been out with single women, married women, cool guys, have fun everything. I don't see what's abnormal.
My guy friends have similar problem, the ones that aren't married. I talked with one of my friends about being asexual.. I wish I could choose because I would in an instant if I could, but women excite me.... i can't change it unless i got a good brain surgeon.
Quote from Xena:
I can commiserate - unfortunately most women these days want to "strike it rich" and nursing is not a profession that gives a suggestion of making a zillion dollars.
Be a bit more sneaky and don't tell your profession and if asked give a vague answer "I work in the medical field".
On the other hand - I am glad not to be in America where if a marriage fails the ex takes you to the cleaners.
There is also another view on the whole thing: "the 3F's". ("If it Floats, if it Flies or if it F-cks then you are better off hiring it by the hour or day")
PS take a holiday for a few weeks to a place like the old Clarke's airbase in the Philippines and hire some of the girls for little money for a few weeks (from the places along "the perimeter fence"). Don't tell them you are looking for a permanent partner. Many ex-military finish up with one of them and there are some beauties around. Stay away from the other Asian countries - their religion and customs will torpedo any relationship.
ehheh that's funny..
I have a coworker that's philipino and he always says I should go there... I wouldnt have no trouble with getting a woman. I'm thinking about it... seems big risk tho as if it's too easy that's a problem I have to worry about waking up with a death sentence (AIDs)
Quote from Rehoboth:
Go Paleo, Go CrossFit, Take Krill Oil and 5000 IU of D3, and K2
3 weeks of that and you will be saying 99 problems but a bitch aint one.
Don't think that's the issue... can do 25 consecutive pullups, run 5k this past friday, 70 pushups per min.... this I can do every day. Very athletic and toned guy, not huge body builder if that's what you mean tho.. I have good tan, not a pasty. Most women i see grossed out by giant men... this of course could be decieve/lie as well.
