Quote from PoundTheRock:
Geez, I have to disagree with you. Let's take one example from Charles Faulkner. Say you were the fat kid at the beach, and the older kids along with your mother made fun of your tits. Pretty traumatic for a kid, right? Body image scarred for life...
Now, Faulkner's advice would be to replay the event in your mind but dub in a circus soundtrack to expose the hilarity in the situation. Picture the kid coming out of the water with his rolls of flab in synchronicity with the leitmotif of the pipe organ. Every subsequent recollection of that day brings joy instead of pain. So, you may want to examine your resistance to NLP and by extension your resistance to new approaches to the market.
And one day Jack will overcome his resistance to sending me the ISBNs of his books. I want to read them!
Regards,
PTR
Haha funny example PTR - but I don't think its an example of NLP. It's more like an example of positive thinking.
And NLP example of that situation would be the fat guy wants to lose weight and he model's himself after someone who has lost weight. Of course he would probably fail as everyone's metabolism and physiology is different.
It seems modeling another person is the essence of NLP - and I think that generally doesn't work. Thats not to say that some NLP techniques like reframing a negative situation in a positive light doesn't work. But even reframing can be dangerous. If you're losing money trading for example and you try to reframe it positively by saying 'oh I'm just paying my tuition' - well then you just continue to go on doing the same thing and getting the same results. I don't think reframing obesity into a something funny or positive is a very healthy thing either.