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i can understand what you are going through because i have been there.. when i first started trading nasdaq stocks i had alot of ideas but i couldnt seem to make them work.. i had read alot of books on different strategies but had a hard time coming up with a game plan of my own..
first i tried scalping larger stocks.. csco seemed like a nice thick stock to trade.. and i lost and lost and lost.. a large bid would appear, i would buy 1000 shares.. the bid would disappear, downtick 1/8 and i would bail - 3/16.. frusterated, i would try again only to face the same small defeat..
then, i joined a chat room and moved on to being a momo trader.. "stocks are like a bouncing ball" and "a lower price creates value, and value brings in buyers" is what i was taught.. so i became much more diverse in the stocks that i traded, after all why should the MM's in CSCO get all my money?.. i was trading using ideas like "JNPR sold off 3 points.. now there are bidders coming in.. it must be bouncing.. ".. and i would buy.. and it would tank, and i would stop out.. or maybe CIEN was flying high for the day and i would short it because it looked like it was stalling.. i cant tell you how much money i lost buying "bottoms" and trying to short "tops" intraday.. i dont even whisper that number to myself.. all i can say is that its a good thing im single, because i bet my wife would have killed me if i had one..
i went on to try other things.. but eventually found some people at realitytrader chat room that helped me understand what i was doing wrong.. most of my problem was in the way that i approached trading and not only in my technique.. there is a tendency among traders to think that the secret of success lies in having a newer and better, more complicated system.. but the greatest challenges that most of us face are inside of ourselves.. when i first started as a trader i was trading for spreads on the nyse.. 2000 shares for 1/16.. as my account grew (i only started with 8k) i increased my share size until i was trading 5000 shares per trade.. i only had one losing week, which was my first week.. and two losing days in a row were unthinkable.. so from nov 99 to about july 00 i had never really experienced loss.. around the end of august, i decided to switch to trading the nazdaq because i knew that decimals would kill the spreads on the nyse.. and immediately i was introduced to the worst side of myself.. i became fearful and impulsive.. personal issues not related to trading were really wearing on my self image and i was unconsciously acting that out in the market.. threei, dbcooper and i had a long talk in rt one night after i had taken a particularly painful loss.. they recommended that i focus my attention on getting my thinking right instead of scrutinizing a new technique.. they recommended "Trading in the Zone" by Mark Douglas as a good place to start.. slowly my thinking has changed over the last couple months and so has my trading.. ive reduced my strategy to only intraday breakouts and breakdowns.. and for the first time since i stopped spread trading i feel in control again.. i have more confidence and most important, i trust myself to do what needs to be done without hesitation.. sometimes i do have relapses and slip back into the old destructive habits, but now i can identify them early and work to change them..
my advice is to first buy "Trading in the Zone".. read it.. and read it again.. second, find someone who is making money consistently in the market that is willing to share their strategy with you.. someone who will also be around to help you understand it when questions arise.. there are some good pay services out there but be careful of trading rooms where the "guru" isnt a trader.. i am a member of realitytrader and i am very happy there.. third, be willing to do whatever it takes.. the price of success is different for us all.. i once heard a story about a covered wagon that was found out in arizona.. the type that was used by those brave souls who risked everything to cross the US in hope of a better life.. in the wagon there was a plaque.. it read.. "..the cowards didnt even start.. the weak died along the way.. only the strong made it through".. and such is the lot of traders..
good trading =)
-qwik