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Here's a thought: Most of the time when the stock market goes up, there are instruments that go down: Gold, treasuries, currencies. If I were you I would take a look at ZB and ZN. This usually helps me when I just can't get myself to run with the trend in the ES or NQ.

Exactly. I often look here. Also, FYI, for every contract Lobster mentioned there is some rough equivalent in stocks, ETFs, etc. if you are uncomfortable with futures. IB has a great list of ETFs on its site. You can short countries if you want. Somewhere in the world, some market is always getting its lights punched out. :eek:
 
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Yeah, and what's aggravating this is I've been trading BIG to make up the losses. And then a superrally comes along and accelerate the loss process with size! OUCH!

I think starting tomorrow I'll trade the smallest possible size on LONGS! Just so I can get back what it felt like going LONG again...

And hopefully tomorrow will have a few decent rallies.

I'd strongly discourage you from trading bigger size to make up for losses. That's "revenge" trading. And after some intra-day losses we sometimes force trades which may not meet our normal criteria for entry. So it's easy to go from bad to worse and incur bigger losses.

And trading smaller size, long or short, might be a good idea just to get a few successful trades under your belt again. Although you may not make a lot of $$$ by trading smaller I suspect your confidence will improve after a few positive outcomes.

Last ... I suspect tomorrow will be a good day to short.
 
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Exactly. I often look here. Also, FYI, for every contract Lobster mentioned there is some rough equivalent in stocks, ETFs, etc. if you are uncomfortable with futures. IB has a great list of ETFs on its site. You can short countries if you want. Somewhere in the world, some market is always getting its lights punched out. :eek:

Sure, that will definitely feed my short bias. But I also really need to learn to go long. Else I'll miss all the action.
 
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It's amazing how one's perception COLORS one's view of reality!

It's like I'm wearing bad sunglasses or something. I force short trades on even. But when I go over and review the trades at the end of the day with the charts, I'm AMAZED and ASHAMED that I could have done such a terrible trade especially when it was so "obvious" that it was going up!! Sometimes what we see isn't what's there. We see what we want to see!!

I gotta change that!



see my "trade what you think, not what you see" thread under strategy trading. your issue is simple, and easy to alter. BUT, you are the only one who can do it. one thing you can do easily is turn your monitor upside down ( or your charts if your software allows for it ) ---- see what i mean ?? perception is key to solving your issue....

all my best,

surfer:)
 
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I want to go long and the market goes down and I make decent money on my shorts! And that ONLY REINFORCES the short side some more!


Hi NeedHelp,

I used to have the very same problem and the punishment for those actions was big and harmful. :(

From my point of view and my own experience I can tell you that such a situation is because a lack of discipline. Make some rules regarding this condition and stick to them under all circumstances.

If your market indicators show you an overall strength picture , adopt a bullish bias and only short those significant corrections ( lower risk). Conversely if the indicators are showing you a picture of global weakness, step into the bear side and long the corrections only if they show a good opportunity ( low risk)

The key is to follow the rules. Find your main bias ( bullish/bearish ) for the day and then step in the opposite side only when price tell you to do so and not when you think you should.

Don't let your mind play games on you. :confused:

Hope some of this can help .Good luck
 
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I'm a girl!

-k

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.. And HELL NO I'm interested in anyone on this site. ..

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GG,

what are you going to say? Some sicko fantasy of yours?!!

hmm..which remind me where is katrina
 
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Sure, that will definitely feed my short bias. But I also really need to learn to go long. Else I'll miss all the action.

Ms. K. NeedHelp,
Long is definitely not wrong, once you get used to it.

Perhaps if you adopted a rule to where you have to quit trading for the day if you enter a short while in an uptrend (a form of punishment for playing with the short side when you need to be playing with the LONG side).

I sincerely hope this helps.

sulong
 
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Ms. K. NeedHelp,
Long is definitely not wrong, once you get used to it.

Perhaps if you adopted a rule to where you have to quit trading for the day if you enter a short while in an uptrend (a form of punishment for playing with the short side when you need to be playing with the LONG side).

I sincerely hope this helps.

sulong

Sulong,

That's a great idea! It would instill discipline and will save me a bundle!! But I like to REVERSE my psychology so I can participate in the rallies as well!
 
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