Thats last phrase was deep. I concur.
Quote from facultus:
You might want to look into Neuro Linguistic Programming. Seriously.
I think the best example on how this works is when someone wakes up one morning and DECIDES that they want to: stop smoking, lose weight, etc. and thats it come hell or high water.
You'll change when the pleasure of doing what you want to do is greater than the fear of not doing it.