Best advices I think came from carey. When You got beat down first thing to do is recover mentally. It can take few days or even a couple of months when You are deadly beat down. Don't take any decision and rebuild your mental state during this stage. After that, If You truly loves this job You need to create your own method for successfully managing trading. This is the hard part even If You truly have passion for this job.
Last thing, that once a great trader told me during one of these event: Reasonable expectations. If You don't get this concept than You are doom for failure in the long term, because You are neither an investor or a trader. Rather a gambler. If that is the case a couple of nights at Las Vegas are better suited and more fun too.