I don't think you understand what I mean by anger.
If you are a competitive athlete at that level, and if you are not angry when you lose....there is something wrong.
I don't ever remember a champion player who didn't feel more pain and anger upon losing, than they feel good about winning.
Hating to lose is a stronger drive than simply wanting to win, and the most competitive athletes hate losing, and it smolders in them, makes them work harder, motivates them to never feel that way again.
If you think differently, you never watched the superstars and their controlled rage take over a game.
When MJ was playing, he was one guy you never wanted to make angry. Same with Magic. Look at Tiger when he gets pissed off. It is that drive, that passion to win and avoid the pain of losing that the champions live with.
Not saying that someone should be a bad sport when they lose, but the pain of losing is what fuels the competitive fire.
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If you are a competitive athlete at that level, and if you are not angry when you lose....there is something wrong.
I don't ever remember a champion player who didn't feel more pain and anger upon losing, than they feel good about winning.
Hating to lose is a stronger drive than simply wanting to win, and the most competitive athletes hate losing, and it smolders in them, makes them work harder, motivates them to never feel that way again.
If you think differently, you never watched the superstars and their controlled rage take over a game.
When MJ was playing, he was one guy you never wanted to make angry. Same with Magic. Look at Tiger when he gets pissed off. It is that drive, that passion to win and avoid the pain of losing that the champions live with.
Not saying that someone should be a bad sport when they lose, but the pain of losing is what fuels the competitive fire.
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Quote from fhl:
Not sure Lebron makes his team better? You gotta be kidding.
This stuff about the smoldering anger is just more conventional wisdom that I dispute. Hoops, just like trading, is done best when one is in the zone, and not suffering from anger issues.
I do wholeheartedly agree that Cavs need a different coach. I'm not at all sure he gets the respect that a coach needs to lead this team where it wants to go.
