my wife went fucking crazy

Quote from Optional:

No no.
She hasn't done anything and she would never do anything like that. It makes her sick. And its painful for her because it just pops up in her head. And that's why, because it was such an acute onset, from her being the most normal, sane chick ever, that I believe its something organic. Something really painful for her.
Anyways, she's having a battery of tests done and I hope she gets better. Thanks for the well wishes.
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I hope she will get better as well and that things will be back to normal.
 
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Man I dunno, I'm just some random idiot on the internet.. but I googled vaginal pain and sexual thoughts and this hit. I hope you guys work through it and all, but really, I have the IQ of a baboon and shouldn't be tryin to help. Goodluck bud.

http://www.psychotherapist.net/adultsurvivors.html
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Thanks for the site she was a victim of sexual abuse as a child and perhaps since she started with the therapy, it might have come out into her subconscious.
Thanks much
 
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Thanks for the site she was a victim of sexual abuse as a child and perhaps since she started with the therapy, it might have come out into her subconscious.
Thanks much
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Sounds like those issues have always been there. Therapy is just bringing it to a head. Better to deal with it now then wait. It would only build up more and be worse.
 
I bet she started birth control pills. Some women have a really hard time with those. I had a girlfriend who became a completly different person after taking birth control. Changed her mentally and made her physically ill as well. We stopped the birth control, and a couple of months later she was back to her normal self.
 
Dear Optional,

With the will to help your wife I am sure that you will succed. And furthermore, I hope that you will be able to take the time to make this issue right. Even take a brake from your job... You could lose her forever...


Be afraid of all the sort of therapist... Why ?

Because it's a business model... You know why treath a personn the first day when you can stress her and make her come for a month or more... If in the way he can sell her pills, the "therapist" will it the jackpot ( more $$$$$$ )...

The saddest or... in this story is that even the wife of the CEOs who support this kind of pratice are paying the price.

trust no one only you.

Take a vacation ouside, go see the sunshine... you know a lot of people are depressed in the winter month for lack of sunshine ( real physical problems ), go in a different place, with different danger...

And please trust the vision of women... they have access to knowledge that men can't havea s easly...
 
And I don't know you...

but remeber the tactic called asymetrical war... If you can't hit some one directly try to hit people who he cares about... Your wife is perfect for that ( I am so sorry... ).

It's the favorite tactics of terrorists...
 
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Thanks for the site she was a victim of sexual abuse as a child and perhaps since she started with the therapy, it might have come out into her subconscious.
Thanks much
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Many times these things don't show up in a person until later in life. The very first thing I would do is eliminate anything organic. Get her to a MD and have full check up. If that's negative, then she should be seeing a good pychiatrist.
 
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Obviously its causing problems between us. And I'm not really sure what to do.

Have any of you guys seen your wives do a total 180? What did you do? Leave? Take a break? Threaten? I've been comforting and understanding for a few weeks now, but I'm afraid I'm going to lose it. We have 2 younger children which makes this harder.

Appreciate any advice.
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Your wife sounds exactly like mine. With the right medical help, she will get better. You can't fix it. You just need to be there for her. And it's going to take longer than a few weeks. Good luck.
 
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