Been happily married for 12 years now to a wonderful super sweet woman. She works hard, takes care of her man, great mom, super loving lady.
In the last month or so, she is starting to unravel mentally. She has always been a bit obsessive and emotional, but nothing persistant or out of the ordinary. She's a chick, right? She's seriously the most normal chick I know.
Make a long story short, she was describing her rare obsessive episodes to a family member and that family member suggest she go into therapy. I was completely against it because I understand what head shrinkers can do, but more importantly, I didn't think her episodes were anything more than common worry or anxiety.
Since she started taking the therapy, against my wishes but I told her to do what she likes, she has deteriorated. She is claiming to have terrible thoughts in her head which she can't shake. She has recently been having some serious stomach abdominal and vaginal area issues which are causing discomfort but not pain. Its not a urinary infection or STD so don't bother with that. She's depressed and crying and she can't get the thoughts out of her head.
Obviously its causing problems between us. And I'm not really sure what to do.
Have any of you guys seen your wives do a total 180? What did you do? Leave? Take a break? Threaten? I've been comforting and understanding for a few weeks now, but I'm afraid I'm going to lose it. We have 2 younger children which makes this harder.
Appreciate any advice.
In the last month or so, she is starting to unravel mentally. She has always been a bit obsessive and emotional, but nothing persistant or out of the ordinary. She's a chick, right? She's seriously the most normal chick I know.
Make a long story short, she was describing her rare obsessive episodes to a family member and that family member suggest she go into therapy. I was completely against it because I understand what head shrinkers can do, but more importantly, I didn't think her episodes were anything more than common worry or anxiety.
Since she started taking the therapy, against my wishes but I told her to do what she likes, she has deteriorated. She is claiming to have terrible thoughts in her head which she can't shake. She has recently been having some serious stomach abdominal and vaginal area issues which are causing discomfort but not pain. Its not a urinary infection or STD so don't bother with that. She's depressed and crying and she can't get the thoughts out of her head.
Obviously its causing problems between us. And I'm not really sure what to do.
Have any of you guys seen your wives do a total 180? What did you do? Leave? Take a break? Threaten? I've been comforting and understanding for a few weeks now, but I'm afraid I'm going to lose it. We have 2 younger children which makes this harder.
Appreciate any advice.