Maybe you could model the account growth and shake it up with some monte carlo work. You would then be looking for a number of account models of growth that were close together and all rising smoothly. That is what I call the "comfort zone"... it is the same thing as reducing the std dev of gains probably..
I was reading up on Qigong and a master said that when we are relaxed and happy, when we have our inner smile, our mind and body works best. after that I added the idea of the comfort zone to the backtesting. It was the last piece of the puzzle and allowed me to let the mathematics guide me to where I want to be...
If you are making all your money on a few trades might as well do what you did and filter out the bad ones... personally I like "grinders", systems that make a lot of smaller gains and maintain consistency from day to day.