don't trade with IB/retail. Find a place that will take a small deposit/don't deposit more than 10k, max. Ask anyone on these boards, or me, and i'll recommend some.
don't worry about grades.
take 4-6 years to graduate if you want, theres no pressure.
school should be a playground for your mind, not a set of hoops. Its something you pay for, not a rite of passage. So don't feel any pressure to do it before your ready. if you're a fuck up, you won't have the discipline to go after delaying it for 1-2 years just trading/thinking your life through. Theres no urgency. If you knew how much life is left after college...
when you hear someone tell you the same thing over and over by the masses. guess what. they're wrong.
I was in the same spot as you without the riches and was told basically the same thing. I'm glad I didn't listen. What in the fuck would I have done now with the current job market if i'd listened to all these donkeys telling me to do this and do that. i mean just look at the result. no jobs, no this, no that, all because of putting college first. and this was to a person without your inheritance. I'm almost 30 and I still act like a fucking moron. and guess what...people i know far better than me..guess what, you'd think they had the emotional intelligence of a toddler. If you're gonna be a trader, you're gonna be trader its almost that simple, you either got it or you don't so you don't need to wait till you're in a dead end job at 39 to open up your mini micro pip fx account.
trade. if you don't have the discipline now to only deposit 5k, once a month, and you try that for 2 years and lose 120k, well guess what its time for school because this shit isn't gonna work out and boo hoo, whatever you had to sell a house to finance this, i mean, you'll live, you'll go to school, and you'll still be better off than most were. Bottom line is if you try and go to school without trading, it'll be an awkward situation unless you make peace with not doing it. and you won't...you're 18..unless you are some kind of jedi spiritual wunderkid, i can't think of a more exciting proposition than trading except a sorority exchange, neither of which you should deny yourself. Doing both might seem hard, but only if you let it. don't think you have to trade and study and have no life...you're not on the normal timeline as everybody else. U of I is cheap as hell, so don't even sweat it when folks are busting their ass to get out only to dump 100gs into grad school. If you do decide to study, you don't have to work like some misfortunate guy that has exactly 4 years to get it done while working as the physics ta. you can take a half load, trade, and party (definitely party) ; won't be able to stay in the dorm like that but who cares just join a house. (btw, i have a news flash for some of you...if you can't go out and trade...guess what...you probably can't trade. Its like phelps or moss. just cause i can't smoke and be in the nfl, doesn't mean those who can can't)
This MIND SET OF SCARCITY / save every last penny before the voodoo man comes to steal your money at night, its ridiculous. 35 with kids? yeah maybe some of the advice given is appropriate, but thats where its coming from and while its applicable, its not the only view.
Don't aim for mediocrity or the safe route, this is the truest thing i've said because i promise you it will not get you anywhere in trading. don't have this mindset. be smart, and be exceptional. and don't ever tell anybody that you trade.