El Cubano and Matt have good advice.
I also recommend you watch VH1 reruns of The Pickup Artist or YouTube the host of that show Mystery. Although largely hilarious, you still might learn something, and, considering your "abrasive" nature and the fact that you've actually beaten someone with a baseball bat, well, I just have the feeling you need lessons in finesse.
I also recommend you watch VH1 reruns of The Pickup Artist or YouTube the host of that show Mystery. Although largely hilarious, you still might learn something, and, considering your "abrasive" nature and the fact that you've actually beaten someone with a baseball bat, well, I just have the feeling you need lessons in finesse.

