Quote from mayo367:
The "big boys" that you refer to Luh3417 is a myth.
The so called "big boy network" is often alluded to by traders that are usually either struggling, experiencing poor returns, reaching for that something extra that appears to be within reach.... but remains elusive, etc.. Think rationally for a moment, these so called "big boy networks" are also humans, have access to the same education, software, they experience the same problems we do, etc.. Oh, let me guess, here is what some traders might suggest to you, they belong to covert societies, with advanced academic degress & thus they're more capable than 'us' the retail trader, hogwash!!
A competent retail trader will never bow down to a so called "dynamic force" that supposedly rules with an iron fist while the retail trader must suffer, because it does not exist, a competent trader accepts responsibility & blames no one. While a struggling trader inevitably arrives @ these far flung theories as the reason for falling short, not achieving a desired expectation. In adhering to these theories, a trader is providing a form of consolation that appeases his own incompetence. In reading your commets near the bottom, ahh, just as I thought, your post is a well crafted cry for help.
Well, you have taken an admirable step by posting your comments in this forum & seeking help. It's really a simple matter, either you need to educate yourself more, hook up with a mentor that knows his craft well perhaps. Remember, profitability for many is earned with experience & experience cannot be wished for, it must be earned. You may have to work at it a little more.
One more thing, don't believe those traders that tell you that the odds are stacked against you, that is a myth as well, if you develop a winning strategy, the odds are never against you, struggling traders always find excuses on why the markets are bigger & stronger than me or you. The world is filled with those that say "it can't be done," or "only the big boys win in the end." These people are usually miserable & cannot stand to be wrong, always with an agenda up their sleeve, always having to prove something to someone. Only to tell you later: "I told you so." Do not waste your precious time with these individuals.