Quote from tradersaavy:
I JUST CAN'T LET THEM RUN.
A few thoughts on your problem, which is one I also had at the beginning and was able to overcome. And I suspect of all challenges that new traders face, this is the most difficult, and most critical if you are to move ahead.
1. I'm reminded of the old adage that "scared money never wins". What this means is that your exit strategy is being ruled by FEAR. Fear of losing your gains. Fear of failing to show a profit. Fear that you will judge yourself as a bad trader. Overcoming this fear is an extremely difficult challenge, but you can't succeed if you don't.
2. Understand and admit to yourself that there is no easy fix to this problem. If there was, everybody would be trading profitably.
3. To overcome this problem, you MUST systematize your trading approach and prove to yourself in backtesting, and in trading initially in very small lots, that you can succeed. In this way, you will have the CONFIDENCE to let your trades run to the level that your system tells you is statistically valid. Without a system and your confidence in it, the odds are very strongly against you succeeding. I devoted two years to developing a system I could have confidence in, after nearly blowing my (large) account out of the water by trying to use my judgement on each trade. After developing a system that worked well with my personality, met my goals, and demonstrated a logical approach, I have never had a problem with confidence or with profitability. And I now see a losing trade as just part of the bigger picture of overall success.
So, get a system that works, practice the system, build your confidence in it, and follow the rules. Because without confidence in what you are doing based on good statistical probabilities, the odds are strongly against you.