I've realized something lately and that is it's actually easier to make money than it is to lose money in the market. Think about it. First off you are standing on the outside watching, you do your research you prepare. Then you put on the trade at the most favorable time (in your opinion). The odds have to be at least somewhat in your favor or you logically wouldn't enter it. So the assumption is you are up a statistical advantage from the start. Then you are at a statistical advantage because you can choose to exit early if you are wrong and stay if you are right. It's not like vegas where it's all or nothing in. Once you put your money down in black jack, you are in, no getting 90% back if you get a bad hand. And no seeing the first card before placing your bet to see your odds.
Let's say you buy something at $20 and it starts dropping and you get out at $19.50.
Then you buy something else at $20 and it rises and you let your win run. You then cash out with a profit of say $2.
The key then is to cut losses and let profits run. Statistically you should be making a lot of money if you can do this consistently. The problem is it requires a discipline. We don't cut our losses, we may even blow up our accounts by not cutting them. We sell too soon to lock in small profits. It goes incredibly in our favor and we miss the boat. Happens over and over again. We give up, we stop trading, we take a break. We pull the money out.
Just speaking personally from past experience. Lately I really do think it's that simple. Cut losses and let profits run and understand it's ok to have losses, it's part of the process.
The problem though is nobody wants to hold anything overnight, not even a trade that's profitably in their favor. Statistically even if it's not in your favor that day, over a 5 day period you might be profitable based on volatility. I've entered a trade and was off by a day on multiple ocassions and kicked myself for getting out as I sit there and calculate how much I would have made if I stayed.
I guess it just depends on how you look at it and the experiences you've personally had.