Quote from KDASFTG:
Greetings Bigarrow,
When I saw your comment the first thing that struck me was this; I believe that the answer to your question, is already in your question. Let me explain; in your question you stated that; �The most difficult trade for me is the marginal trade�. From this statement, one can glean that from the start, you have already assessed and acknowledged your going in assumption about this trade. But in this instance, you have only �subconsciously� acknowledged that this trade is a marginal trade. You didn�t make this fact known to your �conscious� trading mind as yet.
Therefore, when the trade was initiated, your conscious trading mind left you bereft of an appropriate �going-in strategy�. And as a result, in this marginal trade, one in which; �the market starts getting choppy getting close but not hitting my stop or target.� what was the technical likelihood of achieving your original objective, versus taking a full stop loss?
I hope you can see my point which is; that if you were "fully cognizant" of your �going-in expectation� for the trade, before you entered the trade, you would likely have been better prepared to assess the �health� of your trade, as you monitored its realtime progress.
Proposed Solution: I believe that if you make a small mental adjustment in the "conscious" examining of the �going-in expectations� of your trades, you will thereby likely select a more appropriate trading strategy for these type of trades, and things should likely start to improve in instances such as above.
Hope this helps.
KDASFTG