At between 2-4M to 10M, a fund is in an interesting phase. The fund is not large enough to warrant the attention of a capital introduction service like ones in a large ibank. Like somebody else said in this thread, get introductions first, the money will more than likely coming from HNW individuals (not even the ones with family offices). There are plenty of people walking around with 5-10M assets, and they can often provide interesting introductions. Secondly, if you can get a fund raiser that focuses not in the major money centers, they would have an easier time raising money. I know an Italy based banker that raised $38M in the span of 8-10 weeks for a fund.
Introductions can come from some very strange places, from fund administrators, lawyers, even headhunters. So it pays to get on the client list of some of the top-tier firms, for instance, Sadis & Goldberg, or Schultz Roth and Zabel for law firm. Their internal rolodex for large funds that occasionally looking at throwing a few bucks at "seed stage" funds is very impressive. Also, Fortis, Spectrum for fund administration. Sure, you will pay 20-30-40k for their services, but think of them as your link to rest of the fund industry. Interesting story later.
But back to basics, the fund will need a good and polished model / risk / structure / people presentation. And the manager should be able to do a "3-5 min egg timer pitch". Talking about what makes you different, but talk in the context of what they know, but make sure it doesn't sound arrogant. For instance, I know a systematic trading fund once described informally their strategy as "picking up crumbs that RenTech and DE Shaw deemed too small", the proceed to dissect a standard trade (one that say DE Show would do), and talk about how they can pick up some profit through the resultant market impact, but manage their impact and risk, and the FoF was extremely impressed as to their awareness of the business in general. Keep in mind the FoF probably has money with a much larger fund that does those larger type of strategies, so he can verify the smaller fund's claims quite easily. Naturally it is an art form to keep the presentation interesting and yet not give away the "secret sauce".
In terms of drawdowns, don't worry about painting a "good" picture, as long as you demonstrate that you have learned from the drawdown, and have incorporate the necessary scenarios in your risk management, most FoFs I know would let it go. However, most actively managed FoFs (and some FOs) I know I have hard set internal drawdown targets, the moment a fund crosses below the required level, the manager would be replaced (since the drawdown would be inconsistent with the internal risk parameters set by the institution). There are even very active FoFs (and there are more and more of them nowadays), that aim to replace 10-20% of their managers annually. So being fired is not necessarily a bad thing. The key is to present a pragmatic risk model of the fund's strategy, and then stick to that risk profile.
Back to myself, I once got a call from a hedge fund accountant I know, we had a bit of small talk about the general state of the biz, who is doing well, etc. Before I know it, I got a call from a manager of a $3B fund (who was the accountant's old boss) asking me to have a drink with him. We sat down at the bar, and just shot the breeze for a while, talking about the colorful people that we both know (good and bad, etc). He then asked me about my strategy, which I gave a description that is not different from the one I talk about here on ET, and he just turned to me, "So, we are looking for good managers to invest $10-15M each into. I think you will be a perfect fit". I just laughed, "I didn't know that was auditioning for a job. I would have put on a power suit.". Of course I turned him down, but I promised him that I would help to review (if he want) any manager that he is interested in. The reason is that I am trading as an exchange member (individual seat holder), which means that any money I take in would have to be reported. I also have the strategies that are inherently not that scalable (if people give me $50M, I wouldn't know what to do with it), my profitability comes from leverage. Therefore self-funding so far I am quite happy with.
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Do Fof/HNW investors truly have HARD drawdown levels. That is are you automatically deleted from the sample space if your drawdown exceeds 15, 20, 25 or 30%?