Hi Xela, CBC, and Handle:
Apologies if I offended anyone by writing that I don't need long posts telling me that I need discipline. I am new to this forum, and have read other posts where OP asks a question, and the majority of comments are others joking around (trolling a user's lack of knowledge), and after 20 posts finally providing real suggestions. I had taken Handle's post that way. If you read Handle's post, the main suggestion that I was reading was that I need many more trades and many more knowledge before trading, such as "but you have much study before you knowing which month to use", and "But to be doing offsetting is adding fees cause you lack knowledge and impulsive screams you lack discipline and should not be trading at all. What is the rush to lose your money? It won't be long till you have no money left."
The message that I received by reading that was that I should just stop trading, and study. My initial reaction to that message was that I am not sure what Handle's objective is to writing a response to my post in the first place, as I do not see any actual helpful tips or experiences in Handle's message, therefore I took it as a user who may have been out to waste time telling me that I am better off giving up. If that was not the message that Handle was sending, then apologies for assuming that it was a negative post. I am open to suggestions on how I can hedge myself, how the experts and pro's hedge, and any other key things those members feel I would benefit from reading regarding hedging, and SPX option trading.
Regarding fees, if I make 10 trades a day my fees would be something like $150+, or even 20 trades a day would be $350+, just guessing. That is certainly only something I would be ok paying if I were making $1k a day, at a minimum. This is in fact possible in SPX, and yes it's possible to lose $1k a day as well, as I have had times where I was doing that in my very very initial stages, a few months ago.
Again, thank you for your help and suggestions, if you are so kind to give them.
Hi,
I appreciate you are new to trading and the forum. What the other posts above are trying to tell you is that YES You should stop trading. You are just guessing what will happen and have no laid out plan to go about trading. What Handle123 and Xela are trying to say is that you ask a question and you don't like the answer so you think they are being negative. In fact, MANY of us would have appreciated this kind of advice before we lost TENS OF THOUSANDS of dollars in tuition to the market as we learned these things. (I speak from experience here). You don't like hearing that and want someone to tell you something other than you need to study and practice ON PAPER or TD Ameritrade or whatever but stop wasting your own money in the process.
Why don't you back test any and every strategy you come up with on TD? Why don't you look at the charts and see why you exited the position in the first place? If you are a trend follower (I think you mentioned that above) then what makes you think that just because you decided to exit the position that the trend or trade was over? Did you not think it could just consolidate for a while before continuing higher? How do you discern the difference?
You also say that you would have been more profitable by buying the straddle you are describing but what I would suggest is that you would have been more profitable not entering ANY new position when you decided to exit too because no money would have been lost on a losing end of the trade.
Everyone thinks ENTRIES are where the money is made. Actually it's the EXITS in my opinion. Knowing when to cut losses early (Exiting a losing position) saves capital, and when to let winners ride (exiting only when there seems to be no more profit to protect) is how you maximize your gains. You seem to be failing at letting winners ride by exiting too early. Why compound that problem by entering in a counter direction just because you exited? The point everyone is making is that these issues should be resolved before you decide to trade again and test these by looking at charts hours upon hours and studying.
You are playing in the big leagues with people that do this for a living and you think with just some basic knowledge and trial and error in a few months you can be successful. Highly doubtful that will occur. Most people put in 3-10 years before getting to that point. Some never become successful. It's like saying I want to perform a heart transplant but I just learned Anatomy and graduated medical school a few months ago. What would you say to that person? You would say,....go learn and gain a lot more knowledge for ALOT LONGER SON,....maybe you will develop the skills? We all hope you do. But why "operate" and lose money until you know more of what you are doing?
But until then no sense in getting mowed over with real money. Read and study charts and learn about EXITS to protect profits on winners and to protect capital on losers.
Good luck
Just my 0.02
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