Missed opportunities

So Im mad at myself for not waking up in time to trade on friday.
Would have been my best day yet.
Its getting on my nerves. I dont like missing great opportunities.
I know there will be another day another trade.
It bothers me to know I missed out .
oh well .
You all have a great trading day

Unfortunately you can't catch all the good trades. Journal it and move on to the next trade :)
 
It is common to think that trading is a male world by nature, powerful men with their gray suits and their big black cars. Do stereotypes serve? This it is a good question.

The truth is that I was seriously thinking the other day about how much appropiate is the trading for the Female world and I was surprised! Why I don’t see a lot of women when the fact is it would give them high successful probabilities!

Why not to offer the opportunity to the women?
 
I can't speak for all women, but most of the times I have attended trading groups, there is some man there who volunteers, without my asking, to 'advise' me. I don't think it's a pickup thing; I am too old for that. If I am attending a group for the first time, they simply assume that I am ignorant or intimidated. In truth, it's usually me who should be teaching them, but no matter.

I do brush things like this off, but I assure you that many other women would be pissed off and never return. We are, in general, sick of the tacit assumptions that we are less intelligent, less able, more timid, etc. These little presumptions happen to us every day in subtle ways. I know they are usually kindly meant, so I try not to take them too seriously.

I'm still laughing about the time (years ago) when I admired Bob Pisani in a post on this board, and someone responded by asking me if I were gay. It never occurred to the person I might be female.

In one of the trading groups I attended, I met several new mothers who were chatting about trading iron condors between changing diapers. So, I'm thinking the women are out there, but are just not forthcoming about their presence, or perhaps they are too busy doing other things to interact with other traders.
 
After seven years of part time trading, I came to the realization that for me trading is a 100% mental game now - because I know TA principles well, if I trade poorly, it was due to some mental error I committed.

Dwelling on the past and missed trades is a mental error. If you're going to think about anything, you need to remind yourself of the times you did well, not the opportunities you missed. Human nature is to focus on the negative it seems. I hate myself for not just buying all I could of ES at 800 in 2009. I was new to market then, and didn't have a job (no $). So, your post is not far from that thinking. If I had purchased 5 ES in 2009 well that's 300k. I could be permanently retired and living in the Philippines with that. Just last Friday I bought crude and scalped it for a few cents. It then went up more another 90c without going to where my pre planned stop was. I can find another 1,000,000 reasons I should be angry about missed opportunities.

There are always 2 ways of looking at something - I can hate myself because I fucked it up and should be richer than I am today, or I could say, next time I need to hold on because there was no reason to get out, and I was right. The latter thinking is the only one you should do because in order to achieve something you must first realize it is possible and once you go too far with the former, you will either go crazy, give up, think trading is impossible or can't be done or kill yourself.
Well said. I so agree. I think the way we talk to ourselves is key. I am still working on it. I am much nicer to myself than I used to be and more aware of it all, and it helps.
 
I can't speak for all women, but most of the times I have attended trading groups, there is some man there who volunteers, without my asking, to 'advise' me. I don't think it's a pickup thing; I am too old for that. If I am attending a group for the first time, they simply assume that I am ignorant or intimidated. In truth, it's usually me who should be teaching them, but no matter.

I do brush things like this off, but I assure you that many other women would be pissed off and never return. We are, in general, sick of the tacit assumptions that we are less intelligent, less able, more timid, etc. These little presumptions happen to us every day in subtle ways. I know they are usually kindly meant, so I try not to take them too seriously.

I'm still laughing about the time (years ago) when I admired Bob Pisani in a post on this board, and someone responded by asking me if I were gay. It never occurred to the person I might be female.

In one of the trading groups I attended, I met several new mothers who were chatting about trading iron condors between changing diapers. So, I'm thinking the women are out there, but are just not forthcoming about their presence, or perhaps they are too busy doing other things to interact with other traders.
I had to chime in! This is funny (or not so)! I can relate, but I must say in the meetups I go to there are women there, although in the minority. It helps that I run the group! :) It is definitely a male dominated field with a lot of assumptions, and sometimes I just smile and listen. There are trader women, you just have to find them. . .
 
Been there before. My worse one was a 400% intraday gain on a single stock. I sold it too soon at a loss than it just kept climbing from there. Was too chickened out into chasing and ofc by the time I finally decided to jump in again it was already too late.
 
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