I think before anyone trades, they should know the whys and what to do next.
I not read whole post, but I use good deal of "time" and will change target to "breakeven plus lunch" after so much time as back testing shows me overstaying a trade going not direction originated, best to get out, make a little coin on ave down entries and look for other signals. But to let stops be hit even though the temperature of the trade has cooled down seems foolish, but depends on one's back testing.
LOL, I love the inclusion of "lunch!" I haven't used "time" for quite a while. It has been about 5 years now since I started using range bars. But you just reminded me of a cycles trader who used 5 minute bars quite successfully. He was able to predict the time of the next high or low about 80% of the time.
On the stops, are you saying get out before the stops are hit when you feel the trade has run its course?