A lot of good advice from experienced traders. As mentioned you're overcomplicating things and don't appear to have a clear cut system yet.
However from reading your opening post it seems what's really at the root of your problem is fear of being wrong. This is the most basic and classic error that new traders and the general investing public make. Society has conditioned us that being wrong is bad. Being wrong is for losers. Well being wrong is what trading's all about, because you are wrong a lot. In trading, being wrong is just a number, a stat that goes into calculating win rate, expectancy, etc. There can be no emotion attached to being wrong. It's tough to change your thinking, but it can be done.
You also made the comment that you are trading so that you can make a living. This might be feeding your fear of being wrong. Do you have the pressure of making money from the markets to pay the rent and eat? If so, you are up against a huge headwind. Scared money is usually lost.
Your goal as a trader is only to trade well. That means following your plan like a machine. IF you have a valid plan, AND you can follow it, the money will come.
You need to:
1. Stop trading and write down your trading plan. Entry and exit rules, position sizing, risk management, etc.
2. If you don't have a horde of cash to support your living expenses that is apart from your trading capital you need to wait until you have one or get a job that will support you while you get the trading figured out.
3. You have to trade ridiculously small size so that p/l has no affect on you. Practice holding to your rules 100%. Increase size very very gradually only after consistent success at each level.
4. Keep meticulous records and a journal of your emotions prior to entering, and while in every trade.
Most of us who've been around a while and are doing well went through all these phases and steps. Our peers who fell by the wayside were the ones who were impatient and wanted to jump ahead or were too proud/stupid to listen to the advice they were given.
However from reading your opening post it seems what's really at the root of your problem is fear of being wrong. This is the most basic and classic error that new traders and the general investing public make. Society has conditioned us that being wrong is bad. Being wrong is for losers. Well being wrong is what trading's all about, because you are wrong a lot. In trading, being wrong is just a number, a stat that goes into calculating win rate, expectancy, etc. There can be no emotion attached to being wrong. It's tough to change your thinking, but it can be done.
You also made the comment that you are trading so that you can make a living. This might be feeding your fear of being wrong. Do you have the pressure of making money from the markets to pay the rent and eat? If so, you are up against a huge headwind. Scared money is usually lost.
Your goal as a trader is only to trade well. That means following your plan like a machine. IF you have a valid plan, AND you can follow it, the money will come.
You need to:
1. Stop trading and write down your trading plan. Entry and exit rules, position sizing, risk management, etc.
2. If you don't have a horde of cash to support your living expenses that is apart from your trading capital you need to wait until you have one or get a job that will support you while you get the trading figured out.
3. You have to trade ridiculously small size so that p/l has no affect on you. Practice holding to your rules 100%. Increase size very very gradually only after consistent success at each level.
4. Keep meticulous records and a journal of your emotions prior to entering, and while in every trade.
Most of us who've been around a while and are doing well went through all these phases and steps. Our peers who fell by the wayside were the ones who were impatient and wanted to jump ahead or were too proud/stupid to listen to the advice they were given.
