Men, Women, Divorce, and Trading in 2012

Should I get Married?

  • Yes

    Votes: 11 16.4%
  • No

    Votes: 56 83.6%

  • Total voters
    67
Quote from themickey:

My experience in general with Asian women (my last partner was Asian) is they make very faithful partners.

I think she has far more to fear about your suitability.

I think his girl was white, if i remember correctly, not Asian, but women are women anyways, they have their ways about them.
 
Quote from themickey:

My experience in general with Asian women (my last partner was Asian) is they make very faithful partners.

I think she has far more to fear about your suitability.
Interesting thing about women from different cultures, sometime the mere fact that they don't look like your mother, your sister your first girlfriend or your last wife can clear out a lot of baggage in your head. The thing that usually kills it is when you finally meet her mother.
 
Quote from rtiger29:

I think his girl was white, if i remember correctly, not Asian, but women are women anyways, they have their ways about them.
you missed a few posts, the whole thing has become highly racially charged. They don't talk about this stuff on tv (even comedy central) or in newspapers or magazines, you have to go to ET to see what people really think. Most can deal with the risk and uncertainty of the market, but when it comes to woman many hard core traders are more than willing to throw in the towel and admit defeat. Where is emg? Because apparently most men lose, they just lose.
 
Quote from oldtime:

the funny thing is, when I started trading ES I really settled down, quit drinking, never went out, walked every afternoon after the market closed, cleaned my screen and all the windows every morning before the market opened and that's when she left (after 31 years.) I think she finally saw what I was like when I was content and realized this was my life and didn't want any part of it. When I was drinking and running around she always had hope that someday I would amount to something.

wow.. thats a terrible story... holding out thinking some movie style fairytale was goiong to play out or something... then ditched.. thats terrible..
 
Quote from jinxu:

Or This:

The purposes of my comments are to educate men to some facts about today’s western women and maybe, just maybe, some women will take heed of what MANY men are discussing today. Gents today’s western woman will literally suck the life from you so get ready, men young and old listen up; if you are pondering marriage or living with a woman better give these FACTS some thought.
• Did you know that should your marriage/relationship break up and its 50/50 if you’re lucky, that it will, she will 80% of the time be the one to initiate it?
• You are going to spend $5,000-$10,000 on a ring or you’re considered cheap!
• You will spend your next 3 years salary on HER ideal wedding!
• Abuse is a 50/50 statistic, in other words she is just as likely as a man to abuse you but the difference is you are suppose to take it and she is FAR more likely to use a weapon!
• Western women today are just as likely to have extra marital affairs as men! And should this happen it is FAR more likely that it is you, the man, that will pay for her indiscretions. She is 75% more likely to keep the children, house and furniture and the MAN will continue to make the mortgage payments while she continues life as if nothing happened! If the man fools around he still pays the price. The courts have become so slanted that western men are avoiding marriage in droves!
• It takes a man an average of 5 years to recover financially and emotionally from a divorce where a woman is a matter of months.
• Your ex can, at a whim, deny visitation of your children even though you have been paying ¾ of your income to her without missing a payment and there is NOTHING you can do!
• There is ONE man EVERY day that commits suicide in Canada because divorce devastates him financially and emotionally. I am 6’1” and weighed 220 lbs, my first marriage I lost 60 lbs in 3 months because of the stress. My second I lost 50.
• Sex becomes a reward/punishment tool that women exercise at every possible turn.
I have been married twice, both ex’s had affairs, I spent MILLIONS of dollars trying to keep them happy but in the end it was for not. I am well educated, good looking; have many talents, keeping a woman happy I thought would be feasible. Not a western woman, through my experience and discussions with MANY other men, a western woman is virtually impossible to please.
She wants to be taken care of but cares for nothing but herself, she wants her girls night out but lookout if you go out with the boys, she wants you to watch her romance movies with her (training on how a man should behave) but forget about watching a hockey or football game, ask her if she would mind buying you a $10,000 watch or a new sports car after all that’s the equivalent of what you are going to spend on her ring and the wedding. And if you think it’s because you make more money than her that she will not buy you these things, think again. There are more women in middle & upper management today than there are men; they are better educated than men. There are FAR more women in university than men.
I am close to 50 now, I workout and I still look pretty good, I have girls in their early 30s interested (helps to be a singer) however I am FAR more selective of who I date. So men of all ages DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!! And if you do, good luck because that’s all you have is luck.
Today’s western woman is fickle, spoiled, lazy and has a DEEP sense of entitlement! Look at the commercials and TV shows, men are always portrayed as stupid klutzes that need a woman around to straighten him out. Women on TV can indiscriminately smash a man with her fist or any weapon in reach and it’s funny. She can burn or throw his cloths out the window in a commercial and its justified even funny. And let me tell you, women buy into what’s on TV far more than men do! To them its reality!
Gents, never date, only sleep with woman that claim their marriage broke up because “it just didn’t work out”. That’s code for ‘he didn’t do what I told him”!
Men are portrayed as useless, without feeling entities to be dumped upon. So gentlemen as you read this, is that what you think of yourself?
Western woman as you read this you are saying to yourself, “he’s just bitter cause she left him”. Nope I am bitter because I spent 30 years and $2,000,000 doing all I could trying to please 2 women. I bought them horses, new cars, watched those ridiculous romance movies, distanced my good friends and family and I am left with very little, having to start all over again while the 2 of them have homes paid for! And society ignores men as if they are garbage. Girls the movies are not real; TV is not reality and if you want men to behave like the ACTORS in a FICTIONAL romance then you better behave like a porn star in the bedroom!
I no longer believe western woman are capable of love. There may be VERY rare cases where this is not true but gentlemen; would you bet all you have and all you’re going to have on odds that are 95% against you?
Men in closing DO NOT MARRY A WESTERN WOMAN! It will more than likely be the BIGGEST mistake of your life! You have a VERY slim chance of being successful and it is almost entirely up to her whether or not your relationship will succeed!

wow. u made the same mistake twice. isnt there a saying, only an idiot does the same mistake twice?
 
Quote from Grandluxe:

So what happened to the rest of your friends who married? divorced? married but screwing whores?

my best friend jay is married happily over 20 years of sobreity with five kids.. has a surf shop in ormond beach.. Killer cool wife.. awesome kids.. a great life.. simple! they are kind of the hippy christian commun type.. anyone would love them though.. they look out for their friends.. and only care about the simple things.. catching a wave.. meeting new people ..and waking up another day.. As for others .. my other friend had an affair.. her husband extorted the guy who was a higher up in the education system.. husband ended up telling on top of getting the money.. real atheist ego fuck type.. she left him finally and he calls her on the phone and tells her how much of a whore she is while the kid listens.. says stuff like "he should know.. he is gonna find out one day.. might as well be sooner then later" such a mixed bag out their.. sometimes i think these children are going to blow up the world with the way they are brought up.. other times i think something more complex then we can possibly understand is going on..

the list goes on and on... more failures then successes though
 
Quote from cdcaveman:

wow.. thats a terrible story... holding out thinking some movie style fairytale was goiong to play out or something... then ditched.. thats terrible..
yeah you should have it so bad. I am extremely happy now, but you are correct it is terrible what I wanted and lost.
 
Quote from BSAM:

^playa from the himalaya^


its the same thing that happens when your convinced you can't extract money out of the market.. that its to smart for you.. like when your fighting the tape... If you build the field "they" will cum.. haha
 
Quote from oldtime:

yeah you should have it so bad. I am extremely happy now, but you are correct it is terrible what I wanted and lost.

I've had my hard times! i haven't gotton married.. but i've had a terrible addiction to drugs... lost my brother to Cancer.. blew up finanically .. lost three businesses.. BK blow up.. Still kicking with a smile on my face :) i always look at it like.. i'd rather be the person that got hurt then the tornado running destruction through peoples lives.. i can always get a better shelter.. but the tornado's life is always gonna be a mess.. these women that leave there men are never happy.. they think its always on the other side of the fence... they keep looking outside of themselves..
 
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