Marrying for money

[bathrobe]

My parents knew each other for 7 weeks, got married and have been together for 38 years. When they married they were extremely poor, loved each other alot, my father eventually became very successful. but they have not gotten along in 15 years but they both claim to love each other very much.
Nearly all girls I meet my age (Late 20's) care only about money. They trade their beauty for money. Literally all are extremely superficial. This is the case in NYC.

 

[TGM]

You can marry it faster than you can make it. And it will be like this till humans cease to exist.

FWIW, I know of a wealthy trader that married an Eastern European knockout he met on an overseas trip. She was like 27 and he was 48?? They have a kid together now and are living happily ever after. (they have been together for like 8 years or so.)


Of course, she signed a prenup!
Any wealthy person that marries without a prenup ----is a fool.

 

[Triple X]

Quote from bathrobe:

Nearly all girls I meet my age (Late 20's) care only about money. They trade their beauty for money. Literally all are extremely superficial. This is the case in NYC.

Women in the NYC area particularly superficial. It's not a money thing either, because California is also expensive yet there is a smaller percentage of these goldigging types. New York is just all about money.

These stories about women divorcing men after 3 months don't make any sense to me. I'm no lawyer, but my understanding is that a woman is allowed 50% of the difference in your incomes X the number of years you are together. Assets you acquire before a marriage are not considered unless there are children involved. So a woman who married you 3 months ago is entitled to a small sum, not a fortune, unless you make 10M a year.

Not one guy I know would get married again if he had to do it over again. Most men I meet tell me NEVER get married unless you want kids. A friend of mine was so madly in love with his wife, and she with him when they got married. She was still madly in love with him before he passed away a few years ago. She is a terrific woman, but he had also told me he would not marry her again.

I would never get married. Renting is better.

 

[Reaver]

Quote from hsmc1970:

Nicely said Nik your Parents have the most special thing in the World.

Some people just cant understand something like that it is simply not in their nature.

Yes that's unfortunately true. Some people just can't grasp actually loving and caring for someone else. It's human nature to be selfish and greedy, sadly. Money is just fucking paper. I like it and want to make as much as I can, but it ain't worth selling out over. It takes a special person (or in this case two special people) to have something as great as your parents do.

 

[kinggyppo]

Quote from JimyJam:

No argument about that cash.

It's just that love can be a many splendored thing, if you know what I mean.

You could:

1. Love your cat
2. Love a one night stand
3. Love your car
4. Love to trade
5. Love to dance

Etc., etc., etc.

JJ

P.S. This all presupposes that one has had sex. Yes, lets make that a prerequisite of the thread. For anyone to post here they have to had sex ... with at least three different partners.

Have to agree here, Love or the idea, connotes different things to different people. Some people are more idealistic and others are or try to be more realistic. Is it possible for an old geezer with no funds to get a young hottie? Yes, but he has some other quality to make up for it. The same could be said of some young buck out on the hunt. This is like anything else, a persistent mac artist will get laid due to sheer effort. Also, there is so much bullshit idealism about the married state one has to laugh. Even funnier is someone who thinks having money is the answer to all lifes ills. Good luck with that, there are many miserable lonely rich folk out there. Having money has its own inherent issues and problems. Personally I believe that if you are lucky enough to find the right one then count your blessings. Greed makes you blind.

 

[Reaver]

Quote from lindq:

LOL. Spend some time here in Scottsdale and you'll change your tune.

The bars are jammed with Russian and eastern European girls (many of them strikingly beautiful) looking to hook up with a sugar daddy. Stories are legend here - and sadly true - of the 50 and 60 year old guys who swallowed the hook and got nailed just months later with divorce papers. The girl will just drive away in her new SL and hit the circuit again.

In 10 years she will have lost her looks and probably have a couple kids she didn't really want. But what the heck, by that time she's got a 3 million dollar home with a view and her mother Olga and sister Tatiana are moving in from the old country.

Life can be good for attractive whores. Which essentially is all they are.

Sad thing is, if they hadn't come over here to pimp sugar daddies.....they'd be stuck off in some European/Thai brothel being beaten and whored out for peanuts. LOL

Hell, it's the only logical conclusion for them. ha ha They're gonna be whores anyway, they may as well make some money.

 

[JimyJam]

Quote from Triple X:

Not one guy I know would get married again if he had to do it over again. Most men I meet tell me NEVER get married unless you want kids. A friend of mine was so madly in love with his wife, and she with him when they got married. She was still madly in love with him before he passed away a few years ago. She is a terrific woman, but he had also told me he would not marry her again.

I would never get married. Renting is better.

While the marriage was hell, all the relationships I had before, during and after it were pretty special.

I just married the really wrong person. Love and Sex are two of the most powerful forces that we can ever experience, and I believe they transcend Fear, Greed and Hate.

I'm just not sure I would ever do the marriage thing again, even if I did want to have kid(s).

JJ

 

[JimyJam]

Quote from Reaver:

Sad thing is, if they hadn't come over here to pimp sugar daddies.....they'd be stuck off in some European/Thai brothel being beaten and whored out for peanuts. LOL

Hell, it's the only logical conclusion for them. ha ha They're gonna be whores anyway, they may as well make some money.

I used to tour with a dance group when I was younger. Man, those Red Light districts where just fucking crazy! :eek:

JJ

 

[Reaver]

Quote from JimyJam:

I used to tour with a dance group when I was younger. Man, those Red Light districts where just fucking crazy! :eek:

JJ

heh heh no kidding my man. you ain't lying.

 

[Hydroblunt]

Quote from blackjack007:

yes... i once dated a chick with filthy rich parents. those types of girls are quite clingy and demanding because they're used to getting what they want.

Girls like this are easy to manipulate, most men just don't know how. I look up and say "Thank you" when I meet girls like that. But then I often regret it, because it is draining. Hard to explain, but you can start by looking into while these types of girls often go for the slimebags of the world.

probably the best type is a girl who grew up poor or working class then became rich on her own

This is the worst type of girl unless you like wearing the skirt in a relationship.