Marriage, just don't

This 4S App is way easier than back in the day. I had to find out the the old fashion cold war way. Catagorical denial is the most common form defense for a cheating spose. Marriage is an industry, females get brainwashed and become high maintanence liabilties in the states. Until the economy turns they will be jumping from bed to bed with the frequency of a cheap ham radio to gain more wealth. Women are just better liars, men are gulible fools and love is for romantic idots who believe in hope.
China is starting to experience the same issues with thier new found wealth. The same things will probably happen in their culture as well.

Akuma
 
Quote from riddler:

2 reasons why couples get divorced.. money and sex.
why does this happen:
1) both men and woman think they are lucky someone puts up with them or accepts their looks ect...
2) everyone else is getting married and they feel left out
3) they want a family. perhaps they come from a broken home and the significant(actually insignificant) other can provide the stability they missed growing up.
4) they can have their cake and eat it too. they marry someone whom they believe will take care of them and provide them with everything they want but they can also go out and have some fun. this is more common with woman marrying an ugly guy for his money but men do it as well but for other reasons,not money.
5) fear of being alone.

now,if someone told you, " hey, marry me, take care of me, have a baby with me and take care of my children. however, we only have sex when i let you or when i am in the mood".
"hey, marry me, take care of me, have children with me, and take care of the children. however, if you lose your job and we have to rough it for a few years, i am divorcing you and finding someone with money".
sound like a deal you would be interested in? you only live once and wasting your time and emotional energy on something that was always broken is probably one of the greatest injustices you can do to yourself. the moral here is this: all of these problems could be avoided by have confidence, self esteem. and a true love for yourself. if you dont, you will be another statistic.

Then there are couples , that love , respect and cherish every moment they are together.... :eek: cmon meng, slide over and pass me the remote. :)
 
Quote from turkeyneck:

In today’s lousy economy, men can take comfort in knowing that there is one sought-after good that is becoming steadily more affordable: sex.

Women are jumping into the sack faster and with fewer expectations about long-term commitments than ever, effectively discounting the “price” of sex to a record low, according to social psychologists.

More than 25% of young women report giving it up within the first week of dating. While researchers don’t have a baseline to compare it to, interviews they have conducted lead them to believe this is higher than before, which increases the pressure on other women and changes the expectations of men.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/opinio...6I?utm_campaign=Post10&utm_source=Post10Alpha

Not sure I agree with this. Seems like esp. duing the down-tiurn, more and more females are locking their legs and opening only for those with lots of cashola.
 
Quote from short&naked:

Not sure I agree with this. Seems like esp. duing the down-tiurn, more and more females are locking their legs and opening only for those with lots of cashola.

Just the sort of girls to avoid. Might as well date a hooker, at least you know she won't whine, won't keep their legs closed and are easily disposed of. Plus, they'll be cheaper.
 
Quote from Tsing Tao:

hilarious. i have a beautiful wife who is still as awesome as she was when we were married six years ago. we're both over 35 now with one kid and we enjoy life to it's fullest. sex is still fantastic and she's a great friend.

no complaints whatsoever.

You missed the point. You are in the MINORITY!

Quote from Ghost of Cutten:

Western men are to blame, they just roll over and take it like the pussy whipped bitches most of them are. If they stopped fucking old women, fat women, and uppity ballbreaker women, then those traits would rapidly die out via a process of natural selection.

Yes, but there aren't enough hotties for each male. Sex is a basic human need, so unfortunately though this is a true statement, it's virtually impossible to expect.

I'm 24 and I already realized this. For all you complaining about generalization, the articles just trying to convey the stats, which are ugly! Would you trade ugly stats? Not to mention that marrigage does not enable you to do anything that you couldn't before. Try to find one woman that will agree with that statement and you found a rare woman.

Most people live obliviously in denial anyway. It's just fun discussing issues like this with the ignorant and watching everyone else suffer through their issues when you can sit there and say "I told your dumbass..."
 
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Quote from adamm2:

You missed the point. You are in the MINORITY!

Marriage is like trading: 95% of losers, and 5% of winners.
Marriage is like trading : choose well, and, take your time.
If you make a mistake, get out quickly, learn from your mistake , and move on...

Few things that can help the losers ( most of the posters here?) one be better prepared next time:
* know yourself very very well : this starts by being honest with yourself. A bit like trading.
* make sure the other person does love you for who you really are :
marriage is a test of time and sooner or later she/he'll find out. Like a margin call, sooner or later your losing trade will have to be closed. Here the broker getting you out of the trade is your partner.
* make sure you love the person for the right reasons - money is not the right reason, status is not the right reason... personality and charater for instance can be. A bit like trading, enter in a trade for the right reasons.
* make sure there is real chemistry. One lad had the habit of sexing his girls 2 or 3 times a day. According to him, if she doesn't really love you, she won't continue long. I don't know if he came across a nymphomane, but they are still married while many of their friends have hit the divorce court.
* most important : have genuine joy with each other. Genuine joy does resist the test of time.

Now if your real issue is to get sex, money and good looks will always get you there ( hookers professional and occasional) . Obviously when these are gone, the sex goes as well.

As in trading, work on your own psychology.
 
Quote from lg_cap:

Marriage is like trading: 95% of losers, and 5% of winners.
Marriage is like trading : choose well, and, take your time.
If you make a mistake, get out quickly, learn from your mistake , and move on...

Few things that can help the losers ( most of the posters here?) one be better prepared next time:
* know yourself very very well : this starts by being honest with yourself. A bit like trading.
* make sure the other person does love you for who you really are :
marriage is a test of time and sooner or later she/he'll find out. Like a margin call, sooner or later your losing trade will have to be closed. Here the broker getting you out of the trade is your partner.
* make sure you love the person for the right reasons - money is not the right reason, status is not the right reason... personality and charater for instance can be. A bit like trading, enter in a trade for the right reasons.
* make sure there is real chemistry. One lad had the habit of sexing his girls 2 or 3 times a day. According to him, if she doesn't really love you, she won't continue long. I don't know if he came across a nymphomane, but they are still married while many of their friends have hit the divorce court.
* most important : have genuine joy with each other. Genuine joy does resist the test of time.

Now if your real issue is to get sex, money and good looks will always get you there ( hookers professional and occasional) . Obviously when these are gone, the sex goes as well.

As in trading, work on your own psychology.

+1
 
Quote from lg_cap:


If you make a mistake, get out quickly, learn from your mistake , and move on...


But how? There's no such thing as "stop loss". You usually lose your shirt in a divorce. :D
 
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