Marriage, just don't

Here's an excellent article on the subject of how to treat women:

http://www.seductionscience.com/201...guy-why-diamonds-and-dinners-always-backfire/

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And here lies the secret as to why beautiful women typically fall in love with “jerks” and “bad boys”.

It’s not because jerks and bad boys are good for women. It’s because jerks and bad boys don’t spend money on them and kiss their ass all the time. Jerks and bad boys express their own opinions regardless of what she thinks. Jerks and bad boys aren’t afraid of offending her when they playfully slap her ass, tease her about her outfit, and talk about naughty things. Jerks and bad boys don’t mind turning their backs and walking away if she throws a spoiled hissy-fit.

You don’t have to become a jerk to succeed with women however. The secret is, simply don’t reward women for their bad behavior.
 
Quote from turkeyneck:

If you don�t get married, it�s hard to get a divorce

Some of the trickiest cases Bethesda divorce lawyer Deborah Luxenberg has handled come with a twist: The couples in question never married.

They�ve paid the rent together, flossed their teeth side by side and shopped for the perfect couch. Maybe even had a kid. But they chose not to tie the knot. And when they decide they want to untangle their lives and get their fair share of combined assets, they come to divorce lawyers such as Luxenberg for help.

�But there isn�t any law around this,� she says. Often, Luxenberg has to tell them something no lawyer likes to tell a client: There�s not much she can do.

They need to work it out between themselves.

http://www.washingtonpost.com/lifes...et-a-divorce/2011/09/07/gIQAxAdSGL_story.html
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There is a law that if couples live together for more than some time like 6 months or so, then it becomes a common law situation which is as good a marriage. :D

Guess after reading the article it seems there is no law on common law spouses if no agreements are signed in.
 
Quote from toc:

There is a law that if couples live together for more than some time like 6 months or so, then it becomes a common law situation which is as good a marriage. :D

Guess after reading the article it seems there is no law on common law spouses if no agreements are signed in.
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7 years for a common law marriage.
 
Quote from AKUMATOTENSHI:

For the most part you are correct. Militant feminism is one of the several reasons I want to get the &^% out of this country. Shows like Housewives of (Fill in the Blank). They only propagate the nonsense. The media indoctrinates a woman to think "be a bitch, it is ok you are just being assertive." They are very difficult to deal with and do not care about logic. You might as well wear raw meat and jump in the big cat cage at your local zoo. I can't wait to get out this country and meet some decent females. Marriage in the states is a one sided street, the laws and policies are so lopsided towards the females a man does not stand a chance.
My own personal expierence is forget marriage and just go to the ranch.

Welcome to Neo Feudalism,

Akuma
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Gloria Steinem should be so proud of what she helped propel forward.

I wonder how many divorces, step fathers beatings, alcoholism, domestic violences, runaways, addictions, were caused by the "liberated" woman. Admitedly she has said some of her ideas came to her while she was on drugs.

You have to be high to propose a way for a man and woman to live that goes against the last 1 million years of behavior where the man was the head of the household. Its un-natural.

just my two cents. and i am not on acid while writing this. haha


EF
 
Quote from Maverickz:

That actually varies by State and some States do not recognize "Common Law" marriage at all.
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And it's not just living together. You have to hold yourselves out as married. Refer to the other as your husband/wife, introduce yourselves as Mr and Mrs, etc. Basically Common Law marriage means everybody thought you were married.

However, some places have a concept where shacking up then splitting up can require many of the trappings of a divorce, including "palimony" :P but this is not a common law marriage.
 
2 reasons why couples get divorced.. money and sex.
why does this happen:
1) both men and woman think they are lucky someone puts up with them or accepts their looks ect...
2) everyone else is getting married and they feel left out
3) they want a family. perhaps they come from a broken home and the significant(actually insignificant) other can provide the stability they missed growing up.
4) they can have their cake and eat it too. they marry someone whom they believe will take care of them and provide them with everything they want but they can also go out and have some fun. this is more common with woman marrying an ugly guy for his money but men do it as well but for other reasons,not money.
5) fear of being alone.

now,if someone told you, " hey, marry me, take care of me, have a baby with me and take care of my children. however, we only have sex when i let you or when i am in the mood".
"hey, marry me, take care of me, have children with me, and take care of the children. however, if you lose your job and we have to rough it for a few years, i am divorcing you and finding someone with money".
sound like a deal you would be interested in? you only live once and wasting your time and emotional energy on something that was always broken is probably one of the greatest injustices you can do to yourself. the moral here is this: all of these problems could be avoided by have confidence, self esteem. and a true love for yourself. if you dont, you will be another statistic.
 
If the online posts appearing on a chat forum at MacRumors.com are for real, "Find My Friends" may have already claimed its first marriage.

Saturday night on MacRumors, a man saying he lived in New York City posted this:

"Divorcing wife. Thanks iPhone 4s and Find My Friends.

"I got my wife a new 4s and loaded up find my friends without her knowing. She told me she was at her friends house in the east village. I've had suspicions about her meeting this guy who live uptown. Lo and behold, Find my Friends has her right there.

"I just texted her asking where she was and the dumb b---- said she was on 10th Street!! Thank you Apple, thank you App Store, thank you all. These beautiful treasure trove of screen shots [sic] going to play well when I meet her ... at the lawyer's office in a few weeks.

"thankfully, she's the rich one."
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http://news.yahoo.com/cheating-heart-iphone-app-finds-wife-another-man-140300843.html
 
In today’s lousy economy, men can take comfort in knowing that there is one sought-after good that is becoming steadily more affordable: sex.

Women are jumping into the sack faster and with fewer expectations about long-term commitments than ever, effectively discounting the “price” of sex to a record low, according to social psychologists.

More than 25% of young women report giving it up within the first week of dating. While researchers don’t have a baseline to compare it to, interviews they have conducted lead them to believe this is higher than before, which increases the pressure on other women and changes the expectations of men.

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/opinio...6I?utm_campaign=Post10&utm_source=Post10Alpha
 
Quote from riddler:

2 reasons why couples get divorced.. money and sex.
why does this happen:
1) both men and woman think they are lucky someone puts up with them or accepts their looks ect...
2) everyone else is getting married and they feel left out
3) they want a family. perhaps they come from a broken home and the significant(actually insignificant) other can provide the stability they missed growing up.
4) they can have their cake and eat it too. they marry someone whom they believe will take care of them and provide them with everything they want but they can also go out and have some fun. this is more common with woman marrying an ugly guy for his money but men do it as well but for other reasons,not money.
5) fear of being alone.

now,if someone told you, " hey, marry me, take care of me, have a baby with me and take care of my children. however, we only have sex when i let you or when i am in the mood".
"hey, marry me, take care of me, have children with me, and take care of the children. however, if you lose your job and we have to rough it for a few years, i am divorcing you and finding someone with money".
sound like a deal you would be interested in? you only live once and wasting your time and emotional energy on something that was always broken is probably one of the greatest injustices you can do to yourself. the moral here is this: all of these problems could be avoided by have confidence, self esteem. and a true love for yourself. if you dont, you will be another statistic.
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Very well said
 
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