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I am not married. But have experienced this kind of thing previously.
But like I said you can't walk away because of the way you feel. Like I said it is an inescapable prison.
Marriage, just don't
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I am not married. But have experienced this kind of thing previously.
But like I said you can't walk away because of the way you feel. Like I said it is an inescapable prison.
Why do divorces cost so much? Because they are WORTH it!
You have to renew your drivers license, fishing license and hunting license. Why is a marriage license the only license that you don't ever have to renew? No one would do it.
Marriage isn't a word....it's a sentence.
Women are like parking spaces. All the good ones are taken and the rest are just handicapped.
You have to renew your drivers license, fishing license and hunting license. Why is a marriage license the only license that you don't ever have to renew? No one would do it.
Marriage isn't a word....it's a sentence.
Women are like parking spaces. All the good ones are taken and the rest are just handicapped.
Bollocks. That's like saying you can't skydive because of the way you feel. Well, I guarantee you that no matter how scared you feel, if you jump out of a plane, you will shortly be skydiving and pretty soon you will open the damn parachute.
Similarly, if you are with a bitch, and you say "fuck off bitch, your belongings are outside in bin bags, don't come back unless you bring champagne, blow, and your sister in her lingerie" then you will shortly be single and pretty soon you will have forgotten her.
Stop being a slave to feelings which are irrational anyway, and start thinking logically. Ditch the bitch first, then the feelings will follow by rapidly ceasing to give a fuck about her. Boffing her sister, friends, mother, or random women will generally accelerate this process.
Hate to sound bitter but marriage is something I've turned totally sour on. I have no desire to end up in the place that some friends of mine have ended up in.
Over time I began to notice the same relationship patterns playing out over and over again, in my life and that of my peers. It seems that no matter how much money you have, how good looking you are, how witty/funny/charismatic you may be, how good you are in bed.... the inescapable fact is that all relationships have a shelf life. A small percentage of people are able to happily stick together for the long haul despite this, but it just doesn't seem to work out for the vast majority. Kind of like trading, 90% fail (either through divorce or staying together unhappily).
So I don't know... some animal species pair-bond for life, others for shorter periods of time, others not at all. Maybe the idea of being together forever is unnatural for us as a species? Maybe we should just be together for a few years, then move on before things get ugly? Or maybe together forever is doable, but fails because of unrealistic expectations that people place on their partners? I don't know, just some random thoughts on the subject.
Incidentally, not to inflame the male vs female debate... but last year a female friend expressed to me her apprehension toward starting a new job in an office full of women. I've heard similar comments from other women in the past. But how many times do you hear a guy say "Man, I don't want to work in that dept, it's all dudes over there and I don't want to get sucked into the drama." ?? Just sayin...
Over time I began to notice the same relationship patterns playing out over and over again, in my life and that of my peers. It seems that no matter how much money you have, how good looking you are, how witty/funny/charismatic you may be, how good you are in bed.... the inescapable fact is that all relationships have a shelf life. A small percentage of people are able to happily stick together for the long haul despite this, but it just doesn't seem to work out for the vast majority. Kind of like trading, 90% fail (either through divorce or staying together unhappily).
So I don't know... some animal species pair-bond for life, others for shorter periods of time, others not at all. Maybe the idea of being together forever is unnatural for us as a species? Maybe we should just be together for a few years, then move on before things get ugly? Or maybe together forever is doable, but fails because of unrealistic expectations that people place on their partners? I don't know, just some random thoughts on the subject.
Incidentally, not to inflame the male vs female debate... but last year a female friend expressed to me her apprehension toward starting a new job in an office full of women. I've heard similar comments from other women in the past. But how many times do you hear a guy say "Man, I don't want to work in that dept, it's all dudes over there and I don't want to get sucked into the drama." ?? Just sayin...
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Incidentally, not to inflame the male vs female debate... but last year a female friend expressed to me her apprehension toward starting a new job in an office full of women. I've heard similar comments from other women in the past. But how many times do you hear a guy say "Man, I don't want to work in that dept, it's all dudes over there and I don't want to get sucked into the drama." ?? Just sayin...
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"By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher." --Socrates