Marriage, just don't

[dc101]

@lynx,

You took the weakest reference in this thread to address, and then just used ad hominem on it. Your comments about who's more bad, etc. are just straw man arguments brought to us by you.

I certainly think that presentation there was not very sophisticated, and wouldn't be pointing people to it, but most main points there can be found presented elsewhere with quoted scientific research, government stats, etc. My guess would be that the man behind it doesn't hate women, but was simply hurt but one.

The real problem is that "advanced" societies support, encourage, and financially reward psychopathic behavior of some women. The biggest victims of this travesty are children. That's why many men say no to marriage nowadays.

P.S. Very recent result of deeply disturbed woman's actions:
http://www.shrink4men.com/2011/04/1...rmed-robbery-as-a-result-of-her-mothers-lies/

 

[trader#21]

Quote from Larson:

wow, you really sound irate and offended.

 

[short&naked]

Another good reason is below. Of course, the New World Order and a femi-driven economy that does not allow a man to earn a decent wage anymore have absolutely nothing to do with it!


http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/from_our_own_correspondent/9470238.stm

 

[stopnlimits]

Quote from dc101:



The real problem is that "advanced" societies support, encourage, and financially reward psychopathic behavior of some women. The biggest victims of this travesty are children. That's why many men say no to marriage nowadays.

If not marriage, what's a guy to do for lasting female companionship?

 

[Larson]

Quote from stopnlimits:

If not marriage, what's a guy to do for lasting female companionship?

Better put up a slush fund hidden from all the beady eyes, just in case she decides to make your llfe a living hell and take off with your assets, through the court system.

 

[WS_MJH]

Quote from stopnlimits:

If not marriage, what's a guy to do for lasting female companionship?

It's a hard question. Marriage under the right conditions is wonderful and leads to children, which is even better. But many women today are much more fickle, self-centered, materialistic, non-feminine/family oriented, slutty, etc. Then as noted by the other commenters, there isn't the fidelity of the past generations and women are more likely to divorce and get a favorable outcome.

You can find family oriented women; they just get married usually young. Otherwise, if you don't want marriage, just go from one relationship to another.

 

[short&naked]

Quote from WS_MJH:

It's a hard question. Marriage under the right conditions is wonderful and leads to children, which is even better. But many women today are much more fickle, self-centered, materialistic, non-feminine/family oriented, slutty, etc. Then as noted by the other commenters, there isn't the fidelity of the past generations and women are more likely to divorce and get a favorable outcome.

You can find family oriented women; they just get married usually young. Otherwise, if you don't want marriage, just go from one relationship to another.

Even the half-way decent ones are pretty narcissistic.

 

[Ghost of Cutten]

Quote from stopnlimits:

If not marriage, what's a guy to do for lasting female companionship?

Same as with marriage, except without it. I.e. live together, have kids, and so on - just no legal marriage.

Alternatively, if your pimp hand is strong enough, have several girlfriends/mistresses/wifelets.

 

[morganist]

I don't know if I am alone in this one. But i thought I better say it.

If you really care about a woman and they treat you and other people like shit do you feel ashamed of loving them.

I don't think you can help those feelings. So you are trapped, you can't stop feeling the way you do and ending the relationship is too painful. But their behaviour is so bad that you are disgusted in the way you feel.

Love is weird too. You can feel love for some random person and you can't stop it. You could get the most terrible person ever and there is nothing you can do. You could be completely out of their league and they could be as ugly and horrible as hell. But you can't stop the way you feel.

You are trapped in the worse possible situation and there is nothing you can do about it. It isn't even the financial or social consequences (that seem to be the only thing that women worry about) it is simply the emotion you feel for them. You can do nothing about it.

The worst prison ever.

 

[Eddiefl]

Quote from morganist:

I don't know if I am alone in this one. But i thought I better say it.

If you really care about a woman and they treat you and other people like shit do you feel ashamed of loving them.

I don't think you can help those feelings. So you are trapped, you can't stop feeling the way you do and ending the relationship is too painful. But their behaviour is so bad that you are disgusted in the way you feel.

Love is weird too. You can feel love for some random person and you can't stop it. You could get the most terrible person ever and there is nothing you can do. You could be completely out of their league and they could be as ugly and horrible as hell. But you can't stop the way you feel.

You are trapped in the worse possible situation and there is nothing you can do about it. It isn't even the financial or social consequences (that seem to be the only thing that women worry about) it is simply the emotion you feel for them. You can do nothing about it.

The worst prison ever.

Dude, get a divorce. In 3 years you can be were your at financially or better. But it doesnt matter, you will be free!!!!