If you really want help then you need to unveil a lot more details about your trading.
You could/should post your trades with charts explaining what you thought before you entered the trade and what finally took you to exit it, your targets, your stops,...
After that you will get oppinions and suggestions from others. From the views of them you will get many new things to know. Some very usefull, some less. Add it up with your own experience and learn.
Papertrading might be good for some people though for the majority it is not. Rather trade smaller position but keep it all real. When you are good in papertrading you will again arrive with the wrong expectancy to trade. The charts are simply there to show you the past and allow you projections. Making money out of it is by making the right decisions when you are in the market. Papertrading doesnt teach you that lesson.
It makes sense for experienced traders who are going to trade a for them new market because they will not lie into their own pockets.