I'd recommend you use LinkedIn. Do a search there for "High Frequency Trading Developer". It will simultaneously give you a list of people already doing this and the firms they work for, plus you can get an idea of size of the firms by the number of people who show up. Find any/all of the people you have a nexus with and either link up with them or send them a brief in-mail describing what you're doing asking if they're willing to have a 10 minute call with you to pick their brain on the field. If you pick people that you have something in common with, like the same undergrad school for example, you'd be surprised at how many respond to a cold-call email. When you get the call, don't ask for a job, just again give the brief intro of yourself and what you're looking to do and ask them to talk about themselves, their job, how they got there, what recommendations they have for someone starting out, and always, always ask for one other person they recommend you talk to. You'll find that they love to talk about their favorite person, themselves, and most people like to help out those coming up behind them if, like you, they're no threat. Eventually if this is for you you'll find out about a position coming open or the person to talk to in order to get on the list of those they call when they need someone.
Please do report back on your success. My feeling is that they're going to discriminate against you and go for hot young minds with degrees from a top 5 university or someone who's already worked in finance when they were a hot young mind, mostly because I've seen them do that on the finance side. However I'd hope that the developer side is more of a meritocracy, and although it's hard work it's relatively cheap to network and put your name out there with potentially high professional and financial rewards, so I'd certainly encourage you to give it a try.
Please do report back on your success. My feeling is that they're going to discriminate against you and go for hot young minds with degrees from a top 5 university or someone who's already worked in finance when they were a hot young mind, mostly because I've seen them do that on the finance side. However I'd hope that the developer side is more of a meritocracy, and although it's hard work it's relatively cheap to network and put your name out there with potentially high professional and financial rewards, so I'd certainly encourage you to give it a try.