Quote from zdreg:
ask most child rearing experts. they explain that you critcize the actions of the child but do not say the child is a worthless good for nothing.
Quote from jimrockford:
This is not what you are saying. You are saying that the action or statement is that of a crybaby or whiner. This is semantically equivalent to calling your target a crybaby or whiner. If you tell your child that his actions are those of a worthless good for nothing, this is no different from telling your child that he is a worthless good for nothing. The point is to explain why the actions are bad, without either direct or indirect name-calling.
Quote from jimrockford:
People who abuse EliteTrader and its members, and who interfere with its serious discussions, and who do so for selfish entertainment purposes, should be banned from the website.

Quote from sulong:
I'm glad you cleared that up for us.
Abuse and interference in conversations is fine as long as abuser and interferer are not doing it for entertainment.
Happy to have you as our decider.
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