I've been trying to compile as much information and documentation as possible in one or two posts, but to give an accurate and complete coverage of the entire Israel/Palestine-conflict with it's full documentation in so few words is simply not possible. So instead, I'll take on the most established myths about the conflict and highlight some of the worst crimes, and if you disagree on anything I will be ready to get into the details on any part. I will choose my words in a way that every single statement I make can be 100% backed up by irrefutable sources.
Ever since the beginning of the conflict, the Zionists and their supporters have been spewing out vicious lies in order to distort people all over the world, from the infamous late 19th/early 20th century phrase "A land without a people for a people without a land", and all the way up to Joan Peters' From Time Immemorial and the latest rewrite of her book The Case for Israel by Alan Dershowitz. The image propagated by these vicious liars tells us that 1) the land was an empty wasteland when the Zionists started to arrive and that the arabs we now call Palestinians came to the country to enjoy the fruits of the Zionists, 2) the Arabs started all the wars, 3) the Palestinians fled their homes of their own free will or by command of the arab forces during these wars 4) the balance was in favor of the Arabs, and Israel won by some miracle, and 5) the Palestinians wrecked all peace negotiations, not the Israelis. And of course the classic 6) the Palestinians aren't even a people.
This was the common perception of the conflict for several decades, so much that older people in my country still believe in it. However, with the rise of the information age and with the help of some truly noble people, things are changing rapidly. The intellectual Zionist rhetoric is shifting from "We've never done anything wrong, we're perfect" to "Alright so we screwed them, but it had to be done".
1) The land was not an empty wasteland before the Zionists started arriving. On the contrary, there where villages, towns and cities covering the entire northern area, inhabited by a people who had lived there since the dawn of civilization. This is confirmed by every single relevant field of research, from history, archeology and anthropology to DNA research. The myth is debunked fairly thoroughly in these articles:
http://www.capmag.com/article.asp?ID=2136
http://www.capmag.com/article.asp?ID=2138
http://sciencenow.sciencemag.org/cgi/content/citation/2000/1030/1
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Palestinian
2) This one is not that controversial, so unless you have any doubts, I'll leave it for now.
3) "The BBC monitored all Middle Eastern broadcasts throughout 1948. The records, and companion ones by a United States monitoring unit, can be seen at the British Museum. There was not a single order or appeal, or suggestion about evacuation from Palestine, from any Arab radio station, inside or outside Palestine, in 1948. There is a repeated monitored account of Arab appeals, even flat orders, to the civilians of Palestine to stay put." (Erskine Childers (a British researcher and UN official) , quoted by Sami Hadawi in âBitter Harvestâ)"
The Palestinians did not flee their homes by free will during the wars either; they where beat up, raped, tortured, murdered, massacred, and burned. Palestinians have been claiming this ever since the first war, but due to the superior academic skills of the Zionist perpetrators it was completely ignored for decades. Until now, that is. After IDF archives was declassified some time ago, several historians have been writing about what really happened and they all seem to come to the same conclusion: Some really bad things were done to the civilian population. This does not necessarily mean that the intention to do a population transfer (or an ethnic cleansing to use a stronger expression) was carried out intentionally, although it is documented beyond dispute that such a plan was in fact under heavy discussion; this whole matter is still under heavy debate by scholars. What is clear however is that such a population transfer did take place. Against the will of the Palestinians. And even though most of the people who where removed are now dead, some of them and their descendants are living in refugee camps still awaiting the basic human right of return (UDHR article 13, UN resolution 194). Something that kind of explains why Israel is best served by maintaining a controlled state of war for as long as imaginably possible. You can read extensively about this in these books:
Zeev Sternhell, The Founding Myths of Israel (Princeton: 1998)
Benny Morris, Righteous Victims (New York: 1999)
Uri Ben-Eliezer, The Making of Israeli Militarism (Bloomington: 1998)
Martin Gilbert, Israel: A History (New York: 1998)
Sasson Sofer, Zionism and the Foundations of Israeli Diplomacy (Cambridge: 1998)
Obviously I don't expect you to read any of these books, but if you dispute the claim, I'll be happy to get into the details with you; I can point out relevant sections, explain the evidence (the IDF archives) or anything else you wish.
4) I believe this one has been pretty much cleared up and accepted as well. It is now well accepted and agreed upon that the Arab forces were severely unorganized and untrained and far less equipped. While the Israeli forces was highly trained and supported by the US amongst others with equipments and intel. I will provide documentation for this as well if needed.
5) Anyone with the ability to see both sides of the story can see that Israel did everything in its power to prevent the peace processes of going too far, either by suddenly deciding to attack Palestinian leaders labeled as "terrorists" (which in turn would be answered by Palestinian militias), or by demanding so much that the Palestinian leaders would be lynched by their own people if they went on with it. There are tons of articles and books about this, so for starters I'll just give you a couple of titles and a documentary:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-6604775898578139565
Now I'll be the first to say this documentary's primarily focus is the Palestinian side of the story and almost completely ignores the Israeli side, but the facts presented are all true; I've checked them myself and ready to take on any dispute you might have. Even though it covers the peace processes extensively, its primary focus is the US media coverage on the conflict, which also should be of interest to every American.
Couple of books on this issue:
Uri Savir, The Process (New York: 1998)
Nicholas Guyatt, The Absence of Peace (London: 1998)