Till you reach your amount that is 2-3 times more you need and or can spend, you doing many sixteen hour days dreaming of the day you can cut back, time you spend with family, you are like half there, vacations, if you take them you are half there, you get really good at hearing half of what you GF/wife is saying cause they will quiz you. When you get to that magic number you start thinking it wasn't enough.....eventually you either get sicker than a dog or some other life inspiring moments when you start automating as much of the systems you can, once than happens and force yourself not to trade for a month, which is truly difficult, you find you miss it all and start manually trading some but much less than before, but always designing or finding ways to add onto existing systems. Of course this could have been a bad dream and they letting me out of my straight jacket to let me have hot cocoa with marshmallows and watch Roadrunner, meep meep.