I went to the gym yesterday and instead of working out, I attended a fitness class called Body Combat. They lead us doing basic movements related to boxing, tai chi and tae kwon do.
It's lead by a woman that is about 5 foot 1 and weighs about 95-100 lbs. But I would like to have her on my side in a bar fight.
At the end of the class she said she had an announcement to make. I thought she was going to announce that she was going to cancel a class for family obligations etc.
Unfortunately she told us that she had recently turned 40 and decided to get a mammogram because that is what women are suppose to do. When she got the results, she learned she had stage 3 cancer and it was moving to her spine. She is going to start chemo. I and the others, felt bad for her because she is married and has 2 small kids.
Normally, when class ends, the mood is elevated, but not yesterday. It was muted. Myself and others wished her well and I said I would pray for her.
There isn't really much more you can do for someone in this situation.
I guess everyone that reaches their 50th birthday gets a colonoscopy. I have had mine.
I have had 1 endoscopy.
I have had cataracts and had my lens replaced.
I asked my doctor about a bone density test, but she said no because it was basically oriented towards women and men don't usually receive them.
I recently had a physical, and they checked my blood work, it was good except she told me to drink more water.
I exercise regularly and take several vitamins and supplements.
I have never smoked and I only drink 3,4 times a year , perhaps on a holiday.
I have a positive outlook. I have goals.
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But.....what do you say to someone, you know casually like this fitness instructor, who drops a bomb like this? Without insulting them or making them feel bad about the situation?
And what do you do to look out for your health? Do you take any medical tests that might reveal an unknown medical situation?