Quote from cvds16:
also I think your way of thinking is typical of someone young ... when you get older you find it's not so much about the dream but about making money. Yes I know this sounds cynical, but thinking you are out to fulfill some kind of dream and your presence means something in the bigger picture is a tad naive.
if you want fullfilment of something bigger you are probably going to have to find it outside of the markets ...
That doesn't sound cynical, that is just girl-talk.
Girls are the ones who talk about HAVING.
Having the money to buy LV handbags and show off to other girls
Having the money to buy the dream home
Having a husband who makes lots of money so she can show off how she got a 'great catch'
That makes girls happy
We are guys. We don't get fun out of having, we get our kicks from doing.
So what is success for us guys? Success comes from doing, doing what you love.
Look at Jordan, he came back out of retirement to play for the Wizards. He had all the money in the world, nothing to prove, in fact some say he tarnished his legacy - he would have been better off having the game winning shot against the Jazz in the finals as his last shot.
He came back, and saw all his stats go down, cause he loved the game.
That's why it's so funny to hear guys say: 'Oh if I had the money of a Soros or Buffet, I would stop working and just live on the beach and collect interest.'
That is girl-talk.
It's not about the money, it's about the game.
A baseball player stuck in triple A trying to make it pro cause he loves baseball is more happy than a rich I-banker who hates his job.