You keep saying gamma increases if things don't go your way--that's not the case. However, I will say that the gamma curve flattens as vol picks up and that counter-intuitively ATM gamma decreases.
But enough theory. I think we can safely say that theta can be used as a proxy to risk.
No, I'm specifically referring to OTM options and specifically making the point that *at* ATM it is effectively peaked and can only decrease from that point on due to directional changes in the underlying. Also you speak in a way as if the vast majority of people playing these games are actively hedging deltas - when a: they're like not, b: that's going to be quite the fun exercise when the market shits itself and VIX decides to spike to 50+ out of the blue again.
And no I don't agree that theta is some clear proxy for risk.
