Oh, and I forgot... borrow as much family money as you can too. Granny does not need that $8000/month facility.....she's had a good life.... and you'll pay her back in no time anyway.. Just don't forget my check.
You don't think granny should take out a home equity loan on her house that her son and his family live in? She can move in that spare room in the garage on second floor, she get use to diesel and fertilizer smells, the fire pole still works if she needs to "go" quickly. The son put in a new ceiling fan from burned out house next door, might have to use that five pound hammer and tap on blades to get it to start, just pound around the exposed wires, but free is free.
. Just don't forget my check.