I think
@destriero is just fine, and things are looking just fine for him.
This reminded me of high school. Someone died (whom I did not know), and there was this guy in drama class, who said "the fact that you died, does not make you a nice person, when you were a major asshole while alive". This guy was the nicest, and he had the balls to say that in class, and yes, about a person that had just died. Only now, I realize he was absolutely right.
Be grateful that you don't have "worst enemies", as they are an energy drain. Simply by reading your post, I know you have not encountered that in your life.
I have. And I celebrated when they died (as in Champagne & Caviar). I was genuinely
SUPER HAPPY they were dead.
Still am...
I love it...
PS. Sometimes, when I am having a difficult day, I check their obituaries, just to cheer me up!
Other cases, I check their inmate status, and the fact that they are serving very long sentences, in a tiny cell. Puts a smile on my face, every single time!