Quote from jinxu:
Ultimately when you see a setup and enter, it's either gonna work or it's not gonna work. No amount of analyzing afterward will influence the market. There's no guaranteed your setup will work no matter how good you think it is.
You're getting "there" in a sense. While you see a setup and enter, you can be watching for some kind of reversal or something that tells you that your original trade is no longer valid in its current direction. Sometimes this warrants a reverse trade, but on a small account you don't want to end up getting chopped out.
It's all probability in nature. All you can do is set your stop at a reasonable level and hope your trade will work. If it doesn't, then just let it go and wait for the next setup.
Probability is your edge. You set your stop at a level where price would tell you that you are wrong. You don't just pick some random, reasonable level and "hope" it won't get hit. That is gambling with your stop. You absolutely CANNOT "hope" in trading. Like I said earlier, "Do not wish, hope or pray."
The common theme here is that you have to work on YOURSELF. It's not about you taking the rest of the day off because you don't want to revenge trade, it's not about finally understanding what price is going to do because it has always done this before, and it's not about watching your account reach a certain level and you can't seem to break through.
What I am referring to is the fact that a lot of your statements are, "I knew...," "I hoped, wished, and prayed...," or something along the lines of "I, I, I." The last one was the "You, you, you" referring to the fact that you're turning the market into a machine of expectations and trying to humanize price movement.
The market does not care what you do, it does not care where you got in. If you get in, get stopped out, and then price reverses it may cause you to think, "I am fully convinced that people on the inside go hunting for your stops." No. What that means is that YOU were on the wrong side of the market. YOU have to take full responsibility for your trades. You chose to enter there where there may have been a signal that price was reversing. Sometimes you just don't know, but if you aren't sure what the signal is, then you shouldn't have put on a trade to begin with. You can't not take a trade, see price go a million ticks the way that you were going to trade, and then look back and say "yeah, see, I should have traded there." If you "should" have traded there, then you "would" have traded there. You cannot play the "shoulda, woulda, coulda" game because it will eat you alive. Trade in the "now moment." If you decide to sit on the sidelines because you just aren't fully convinced and then price races to a profit target, you can't beat yourself up over it because you were right in not taking the trade. You took all available information and decided to not take the trade. Just because price went to all new highs doesn't make you wrong for not taking the trade. You have to be able to distinguish what makes you right and what makes you wrong.
Most of my problem right now is that I see my setups, but I don't take them. It's partly because I don't trust myself and I have some sort of mental block. It's a fear. It's not a fear like "I'm scared of snakes." It's a fear of the unknown, of uncertainty. I am aggressively working on it. I'm working on myself. I'm not sitting here reading every trading book on the market and I'm not sitting here analyzing every market trying to find what works. I know my setups/signals work, it's just me that is causing me to hesitate.
Turn your mindset away from the what the market "should" do and what the market "will" do, and direct your energy toward your own psychology. Look for self-improvement of yourself. I think the two best books are commonly known.
Also, the only direct point I will make here is this: Stop using 1 minute charts.