Reminds me of those summer jobs or internships when in high school and college.
When you are the new kid and someone is showing you the ropes. Sometimes what they were doing was way above my head, other times you were thinking "they get paid to do
this?!"
And then you become a trader, and for me... failing for some time. And I'm sitting there day after day wondering what it is I'm supposed to do. What am I supposed to be? All the jobs I had before one could kind of understand, but this one...
A person can live their entire life (literally birth to death) - and never need to call upon the discipline..., patience..., sameness (routine) it takes to trade successfully
Not once..., not repeatedly..., not ever
...and you sit there; it seems so simple in a way and obvious what to do; knowing the rewards if you do it. Yet you are somehow not doing it, not being successful. That can mess with you. You discover you are not the I-can-do-it-person you think you are.
Why do so many fail or quit before they succeed?
It may be that we never recognize the discipline…, patience…, sameness… because not once…, not ever…. have we
needed to go there before in our lives.
And maybe the people who succeed early on – for whatever reason – just have done that level of discipline/patience/sameness as just part of who they naturally tend to be?
And those of us who continue on and succeed find some way to reach that depth of discipline, patience, sameness.
………………….
For me the sameness part is the hardest. When I was the new kid for trading and they were showing me the ropes… The discipline and patience I heard at least in part, but the ‘sameness’ didn’t soak in – that was not in my nature at all.
One of my favorite RN quotes is something to the effect that if you don't do it exactly right each time you are hurting yourself. Similar to that, I don't remember who, but someone said that one of the hardest things to do is a simple thing over and over and over.
And with trading you chose to do that sameness/routine over and over in an uncertain environment where you can never know the what the results will be of any one thing you do. It is a peculiar thing.
<Scratching head.> Wait a minute.
You never know the results… but keep doing the same thing?
Isn’t ‘crazy’ doing the same thing over and over expecting different results… like, finally the results you want.
Trading is doing the same thing over and over – and
expecting different results than what you want – because you accept uncertainty.
……………..
So trading is just one step different than being crazy.
And
that near experience is enough for some people to quit before they succeed.
[I’m joking, but it actually could be!]